What if I:
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went to a top 13 B school and made at least $200k/year not in a tech city
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help my community by working hands on during weekends to volunteer at shelters as well as donate a lot of the money I make.
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stopped watching porn
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got jacked and got a Zayn Malik type hair cut
If that’s not enough, would you blame me praying for the Singularity so that I can be free of this apparatus?
Those are things I’m working towards anyways regardless of whether I end up in a relationship. I want to make it clear that being rewarded for any of that is not the point. The point is that if I weren’t doing those things, I could be doing better.
I do want you all to verify that short, Indian men are born worthless. I know that doesn’t give us an excuse to stop working.
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Two men I can think of that I actually know and admire are both South Asian, and one of them is Muslim (he’s in his 70s). His daughters are very successful and one married a white man for what that’s worth (I guess to prove to redditors that he is a good man. You wouldn’t believe me unless you actually met him). He’s pious, gentle, and kind. He was also a professor.
The other was raised in America like me, and he’s not a practicing Muslim. I’m pretty sure he’s an atheist. He’s the kind of guy that would stand up for someone who’s bullied, and they would be intimidated by him for what that’s worth (to prove to redditors that a man of South Asian descent can be that type of man). His wife is a non Asian WoC.
This next one is a meme on FDS, but I’ll say it anyways. I’m an atheist, but the character of Jesus in the Bible moves me. The message it sent me was that I can stop trying to be a perfectionist because we’re all human/capable of sin/original sin blah blah blah. He died to take that pressure off of us. If we truly love him, we would obey his commands. (I know the irony considering this whole post; I just forgot about my experiment with Christianity) Even though I’m still an atheist, I can’t deny that story is beautiful and moves me more than Islam did, Richard Dawkins/Sam Harris, or Buddhism.
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The other guy I was talking about isn’t that short. I thought he was 6’ but he told me he’s 5’10. Either way, he’s very athletic, but without the type of Barstool/reddit bodybuilding fake macho personality. The way he talks about lifting is very different than what I see on reddit. It’s more like YouTube and the stuff that reddit says doesn’t actually work. Either way, he could legit kick someone’s ass if he needed to, but he’s not aggressive. He also does ju jitsu.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fi0shm/indian_men_are_so_embarrassing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
“Lmao, hardly surprising. Not only are most of them LVM, but they're also mostly super ugly, short and not worth breeding with. I make more money (and am taller than) than 95% of the dudes in the entire country and they wanna talk about "free money"? What money, loser? LMAO! I wrote off Indian men since I was a teenager. No way in hell would I marry one of these ugly, poor, disgusting scrotes or raise children in this hellhole.”
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Didn’t say I was against giving women in India getting financial security. Everyone (aside from brown boomers, they aren’t real people) knows women are mistreated in India. That’s not controversial.
This question is what’s debatable.
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That’s good. Thanks for confirming that.
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Who said that’s all he took from the thread? You’re shifting the goalposts. Stay on topic and answer his question. This isn’t a real response.
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Did I come here to enter into a relationship with you? No? Then it would seem my nonexistent limp dick is beside the point, which you so wonderfully have pointed out in yet another attempt to shift the argument, this time stemming evidently from an estrogen fueled slanderous rage. Let’s remove the ad hominem for now and get to the point, which I have been made aware is difficult for many on FDS but we’ll see what we can do.
Your original comment was irrelevant because he asked if he was low value based on his appearance and other factors beyond his control, which was a valid concern based on an upvoted comment on FDS and a general sentiment in said sub which consistently and unapologetically puts down short men in insults. He did not ask you to compare his situation with the objectively worse situation of women being treated like shit it India. While true, it is beside the point of the post and therefore is just self-victimization.
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What's your height exactly? And no matter how short you are, lots of girls (especially ethnicities like Indian, East Asian, Philippino) will still be shorter than you, and youwill be attractive to them. Besides, you'll always have the option of marrying someone from 'back home'. They're not all illiterates there, many girls are quite modern and you can get to know them for a few months before deciding on marriage. You'll be the ultimate HVM for most of these girls above.
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The idea of me getting an arranged marriage to someone who would almost certainly be a Muslim woman goes against everything I stand for.
I’d rather tell my parents I’m not getting married and drown out their yelling.
If we’re talking about a “value” match (not “value” as in HVM/LVM, but beliefs/experiences) the match would be an ex Muslim Desi woman raised in the West. I’m pretty sure the women I know like that have had a similar self hatred that iNdIaN iNcEls (just the guys, right?) have. (it’s not even that secret; they’re pretty transparent now too. On Subtle Curry Traits a popular “relatable” post was about how she grew up wishing she were white because there were no pretty brown women in the media, and now that we have Priyanka Chopra, she still kind of wishes she were white). They usually want nothing to do with brown guys, period.
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