How do you guys navigate aging ?

Iprotestthetest · 2020-02-07T04:16:07+00:00

Are you a man? Posting in the rapekink thread asking how to bait? And to come here.. gurll/larper idk you need therapy. Lots and lots of it. Is this boyfriend you’re with now from 15 was that the 40 year old? And you made a post worried about pedophiles. Well HUNNY it doesn’t get any worst than that! And you’re afraid he’ll leave you for another 15 year old! Clearly you know the answer. This man is a pedophile. This isn’t about navigating age. You’re acting as if you’re not ogled over by pedophiles it’s over. It’s a great thing to get out of that age gap! Predators still prey on early twenties. They know this. Men that old have no business being with women half their age. It’s all about their dicks and most of them only go for 18 because of a law.

But for real posting in the rape kink you have way bigger issues to try

AyemHerself · 2020-02-07T04:27:18+00:00

I've seen you around here before and I think you're starting to see the light. That's very good. Unfortunately there's only so many ways to tell you your worth is not defined by how pedophiles desire you. And yes, all this time you have been attracting pedophiles.

Stay away from porn. They've taught you and many others an extremely warped view of human sexuality. That's not how sex is meant to be or make you feel. Stop talking to these guys you've been talking to, and don't talk to men at all in a sexual context for a while. You're not ready, but you are easy prey for someone else to take advantage of you.

Seek a therapist. You need someone with training in this field to help you navigate what you're feeling. Strangers on the internet can be nice for venting and general support, but we're no different from randos on the street and we can't fix you. You'll need to talk about the hard subjects and shed a few tears with someone whose name is followed by an alphabet.

Good luck to you.

SimpleSyrups · 2020-02-07T04:54:35+00:00

When I was 14 I started feeling so powerful in my femininity like I just felt so alluring as if I was just on top of the world. In my head I had everything a woman should : beauty check, nice body check, slept with a decent amount of men check

Slept with a decent amount of men? What? What the fuck is a decent amount of men to be fucking by 14?

This is genuinely something that destroys me and I have no control over. Why is this a thing men get hotter with age and yet I feel like woman just have to shrivel up and die. Age is not constant why is it such a defining characteristic if it happens to everyone.

This is a lie, one based in bullshit patriarchy.

You talk about killing yourself at twenty. Get some mental health, quickly. Get off reddit and the kink subs. Stop looking for validation for these inherently toxic views.

Seriously. Get help. Nothing you’ve said here comes from an even relatively healthy mental space.

Verygoodcheese · 2020-02-07T03:46:51+00:00

Do you think your mane value is your age, and expect men to think so too. Maybe you need to get to know yourself better so you can see your true value.

I am 43 and I feel more feminine and sexy than I ever have, and have a lot of male attention. Don’t worry so much. Take care of yourself, health and mental health, build a life you love and age becomes a non issue.

I am married but still get admirers. They might like my looks but confidence and the knowing of who you are that comes with age makes up for any wrinkles.

Besides who wants to be with a shallow guy who’s interest is only skin deep.

The best connections are with people who cherish you for your heart, mind, integrity and because they enjoy time with you. Forget anyone who values you for things you can lose like youth and money.

Title	How do you guys navigate aging ?
Author	Litaloxo135
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	February 6, 2020 8:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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