I never knew this was a problem until my boyfriend mentioned it. He said he accepts it but he prefers it when women have an 'innie' which I certainly don't have. Now I want one and I think about it a lot and I feel really embarrassed, to the point where I don't like sex with him anymore. We still do it on a regular basis but I feel self conscious the whole time and cannot wait for it to be over. He said this over a year ago and hasn't caught onto how I feel, and to be honest I don't think he cares. Where I live sometimes they do them on universal health care, and my case is most probably bad enough for them to consider putting me on a waiting list. I have heard of women being in constant pain from having this done from nerve damage. Do any women have any stories of having this procedure done or know someone who has? Do any women not look the best down there but they have chosen to accept it? I would like to hear others experiences.