Hey there. Pretty unexperienced redpiller here. I had a date tonight, in which I couldn't K-close, although I honestly thought - and still think - I should have been able to, given what went down.
This is what happened.
Brought this girl out. We already knew each other so I was comfortable. Got drinks, talked a while, she was leaning towards me, very reactive to sexual innuendo and jokes. I'm feeling good, I'm doing good kino, touching her legs and arms as we talk. Talking about her tattoos she invites me to touch her. I'm feeling really good about this. She starts acting like she has drunk way more than she had = she wanted to have an excuse for whatever happened later.
Change of location. Move her to a park, me confidently on the lead. On the benches, I have her legs on me, I'm handling her butt, and we're talking about sex. I am not even any longer questioning that she is available to me.
We're really close, face to face, talking softly, making jokes and sexual innuendo, touching each other. Moment of silence, a little staring, she goes "What?" smiling. I smile in amused mastery, she smiles back, I go for the kiss.
She turns away. I keep the amused mastery, expecting to be somewhat reprimanded - she trying "not to be the easy girl"? - nothing of the sort. Still butt in my hands, still legs around me, but now steers away from my face. Still great atmosphere, doesn't change one bit, but at this point I'm dumbfounded. Can you guys help me understand what happened here?
P.S. What happened later on: I pulled back a bit from her and got back on track later, but she didn't let the touching flow as much as before. Tried going for her again in the car, while we were talking outside of her place, but she very deliberately avoided me going in. I have no idea what this all means.
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