starting to give up (threesome game)

MassiveNutInButt · 2021-10-14T18:14:51+00:00

Chances are they see you as a provider and want to lock you down to ensure their future financial stability. This translates into everything reletionship related

SuciasAreMyFavorite · 2021-10-14T18:18:40+00:00

Planned/setup Threesomes rarely happens work.

They can, if you have a unicorn that will actively pursue other women with/for you.

I wouldn't know how to find/target one, I've been lucky to have dated 2.

Afro_Aviator · 2021-10-14T19:41:03+00:00

If you have some plates, if you are willing to take a risk and break one or two in the process. Just invite the two most open minded over to your place, two or three hours apart on the same evening, pretend like you made a mistake with dates. They will be pissed off at you for a few minutes, keep your frame and be confident add some alcohol to the mix and you will have your threesome.

Girls need plausible deniability don’t discuss threesomes with them or try to negotiate, it just ‘happened’. Be in control of the situation without looking like you are in control.

moreisbetter94 · 2021-10-14T18:16:14+00:00

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HumanSockPuppet · 2021-10-14T19:48:59+00:00

I have only ever had one spontaneous threesome - and it arose from a scenario where I had high situational value and a lot of social credit weighing in on my side.

The rest of my threesomes involved a girl (always a FWB or LTR) who was already fiercely invested in and loyal to me, and we selected a third girl together to join us.

LawItUp77 · 2021-10-14T18:24:07+00:00

I've never been successful, but I've been close. I would be sexting the girl and while its raunchy say something about how hot it would be to have another girl (of course more raunchy since you're sexting. Then once she got the idea going I would say I know the perfect girl and send one of the nudes of one girl to the other. Repeat with other girl. Then have them meet each other over some drinks and then boom.

I unfortunately never got to the meeting point.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-14T19:26:04+00:00

Forgot to mention in your other thread..

Go to swinger parties or find a girl that likes them.

She'd most likely be way more open to make it happen.

Metalgear222 · 2021-10-14T19:36:27+00:00

“I like you too much to share you” is “I’m too lazy or I don’t want to.”

Finding a bi primary girl is the key. One who is good socially and good with women is the hard part. They will doing most of the pulling for you.

The other way is to game a girl most of the night without mentioning your primary, primary shows up, girl had intentions to fuck you, primary shows her it’s cool, etc etc.

blearx · 2021-10-14T18:44:42+00:00

Off topic but, what way are you all pulling girls? I'm primarily on online dating platforms, but wouldn't know how to do it irl. Someone with experience, got any advice?

ChrimsonChin988 · 2021-10-14T20:07:29+00:00

The girl just has to be more into the threesomes than she is of losing you to another chick/becoming jealous.

There's no way to force that shit on a girl, you just get lucky some times. You have a sphere of influence and some things fall outside of it. Like you said some times it's right place and you say/do the right thing and it happens. And sometimes it doesn't. Of course as you gain more experience you will figure out what works/doesn't work through trial and error but nobody gets a 100% success rate with this type of thing or even 50%.

Have a hard time believing it's really all that important to you.

(Patrice has some good talk about this stuff, listen to it. 3somes with 2 randoms are rare, usually you have a primary chick who is bi and she gets you the 2nd girl)

KillaJewels · 2021-10-14T20:51:18+00:00

Set better boundaries early on, subtly communicating that you’re someone who likes to have “fun”. Do that by casually weaving into convo what so and so girl was saying the other day then mention another girl, etc. Also, don’t be romantic in your language. Treat her as a friend and keep it strictly sexual.

Don’t beat yourself up bc it’s not always you; sometimes the girl is looking for a bf and you fit the image for her. Also, bi girls are easier to work with. She may be open enough when you ask that she may have already another girl in mind, or just go out to a bar and have her point out who she might be interested in.

Important to game the other girl first a bit then introduce the main. Girls pick up on things pretty quick. Some girls would love to be a unicorn.

Working on one myself w my current fwb :)

jakeyv123 · 2021-10-14T21:15:57+00:00

I’d suggest getting them aroused in a situation where the attention is on other women.

Next time you get your freak on with one of these girls, you could try having drinks with one of them and then just say why don’t we watch porn together? Put on something, but then put on lesbian porn. And then satisfy the fuck out of her while she watches it.

Think of it like training your girls. The more they get off on the fantasy of it, the more they will want jt. They just don’t want it just yet with you because they see you as a prospective boyfriend

jakeyv123 · 2021-10-14T21:16:16+00:00

I’d suggest getting them aroused in a situation where the attention is on other women.

Next time you get your freak on with one of these girls, you could try having drinks with one of them and then just say why don’t we watch porn together? Put on something, but then put on lesbian porn. And then satisfy the fuck out of her while she watches it.

Think of it like training your girls. The more they get off on the fantasy of it, the more they will want jt. They just don’t want it just yet with you because they see you as a prospective boyfriend

inferno1234 · 2021-10-14T21:20:47+00:00

Sounds more like asktrp but let me try, had 3 threesomes so not that much of an expert but hey.

Both times took a lot of logistics, so don't get beat down by that. Having girls who are into s&m helps, I always did and I frame it as sharing a sub with a partner.

I don't do threesomes with my main girl, it's too much hassle and you want everyone to be equal. So maybe you are trying to do this with girls who are too invested.. in my experience, good candidates for threesomes and group experiences are casual fuckbuddies.

Just my 2 cents

wanker7171 · 2021-10-14T21:35:42+00:00

And I know she thinks she's complimenting me but all I'm hearing is... I only see you as boyfriend material not someone I can have fun with.

This is completely accurate. She's too comfortable with you, and if you're getting that a lot, chances are it's because you're giving off "I want a serious relationship" signals.

Wtfbyamey · 2021-10-14T19:02:38+00:00

Or you could just tell them this to their face

“If you really cared about me more, or liked me more than the previous guys , then you would be actively having more threesomes with me than you had with previous guys , the fact that you won’t just shows that you liked the previous guy/guys more than me”

And thus establish some frame

Title	starting to give up (threesome game)
Author	moreisbetter94
Upvotes	13
Comments	47
Date	October 14, 2021 6:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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