This girl and I dated last winter. She went back to school and we broke it off, didn't talk for awhile.

Summer comes, she's free and we start talking. Usually just snapchats and some light texting, sometimes she calls.

Some nights when she's drunk she calls me asking me to "get here right now" etc etc. I've told her once to cut it out and it's stopped. I'd rather not be her emotional rag and I have explicitly told her that.

She came back to town (I live about an hour away) to visit with me a week ago but refused to get sexual. We made out some and afterward she was very affectionate, but still refusing to escalate to anything sexual. The lack of sexuality seemed to me to be a red flag considering this winter she was all over me.

My orbiter alarm really went off when I re-read past texts from this spring onward and saw all the times she had cancelled on plans she "was sure she could make". I feel like she's "coming back" and if I keep trying we could get some of what we had this last winter - I realize this is classic orbiter logic.

We have been planning to go hiking in her town one of these upcoming weekends and instead I'm thinking about ghosting her, should I? Or should I go through with the plans, keep up the minimal effort and try one last time to be sexual?

If it makes any difference I usually don't initiate any of our interactions over the phone, usually she initiates.

Also should note that I have been seeing other girls this entire year, I have a few plates and am always trying to meet new girls and date them. I will admit I do want this girl though - some one-itis going on for sure.