Being gay has its privileges when it comes to dating dynamics

chubbybutt22 · 2021-11-17T15:40:33+00:00

I’m bi. But the truth is… it’s not that complicated.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-11-17T15:56:19+00:00

I'm pan, but I don't see it as that complicated. I think the difference is that I would never settle, and you're describing a (not at all universal) dynamic that I wouldn't put up with.

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Emervila · 2021-11-17T16:00:24+00:00

When it comes to lesbian dating scene, you don't really have roles or "musts". You do what you feel like, dress the way ou want to and behave how you like, and people aren't going to automatically judge you out of the dating market for not fitting roles that don't really exist If you want to wait for the one, that's cool If you want to bang chicks in every corner, that's cool too Also

Misconception

You can do the same in the SMP too, the problem arises when people doing it feel entitled to others liking them that way hence FDS and Blackpill people or all the resentful/frustrated people in the middle

I feel detached from some biologic determinisms you guys talk about, such as hypergamy.

you're not, you are just playing in a different arena. Some same sex couples do legally fight about progeny when they get involved into IV fertilizations and you see there there's hypergamy all around when there's conflict. It's just overall dating is more friendly since you are in a different market place

Hypergamy has always been restrained by either social conditions or direct regulation, but now it's wild in the open

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-11-17T16:01:42+00:00

Removed for off topic

Gari_305 · 2021-11-17T16:02:34+00:00

Actually it feels kind of nice to be detached from this. When it comes to lesbian dating scene, you don't really have roles or "musts". You do what you feel like, dress the way ou want to and behave how you like, and people aren't going to automatically judge you out of the dating market for not fitting roles that don't really exist If you want to wait for the one, that's cool If you want to bang chicks in every corner, that's cool too

I just have a question though and since you are lesbian, you can answer it for me.

What's up with Lesbian Studs "Sneak Dicking" and turning up pregnant?

I just want to know why is this phenomenon going on though?

Sen_ri · 2021-11-17T16:06:50+00:00

I’m bisexual and I honestly used to think I’d prefer to date women. Thought guys had weird expectations. But my first relationship ended up being with a guy. He’s a lot like me personality wise so we clicked. Just a straight guy.

I think people here are prone to over analyzing. And I remain unconvinced these things apply to most straight people.

Title	Being gay has its privileges when it comes to dating dynamics
Author	thebesttoaster
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	November 17, 2021 3:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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