How to make GF more confident?

PragmaticRedTruth · 2016-07-19T16:23:59+00:00

These are insecurities.

Please understand, these aren't your problem, they aren't something you can fix. You'll get frustrated trying.

You can make some remarks, but anything beyond that, or any expectation that she will change, isn't going to do you or her any good.

When she does something you like, such as wears clothing you want her to, attack her. Tell her how good she looks and say more with your body and eyes, than your mouth. Then, fuck her brains out. Later, when she has something plain Jane on, tease her and tell her it looks like she's ready for church, or a funeral.

oprahsghost · 2016-07-19T16:21:38+00:00

Weird place to ask this kind of question. Not sure what answer you want. This will get downvoted here but to increase her confidence tell her she looks good in xyz clothes or that the bag looks great on her. Don't have to go overboard.

ouselesso · 2016-07-19T18:29:13+00:00

That's a pretty serious red flag there, she's making drama and your entering her frame playing the game. Her personal problems aren't yours to fix.

SetConsumes · 2016-07-19T20:26:01+00:00

You won't do it logically. Condition her, reinforce how you want her to feel when she's dressing how you want her to dress or doing what you want her to do.

But don't expect some concrete change. True confidence stems from knowledge, women's knowledge is more based on how they feel than objective fact. She can be confident one moment, insecure the next, and confident again moments later.

RPShitlord · 2016-07-19T16:19:40+00:00

I think she's creating drama and you want to get yourself involved.

verify_account · 2016-07-19T16:46:29+00:00

Not your problem.

Title	How to make GF more confident?
Author	ackoe
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	July 19, 2016 3:59 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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