Covered name of asshat.. so I’m a rapist now because my ex told a lie? And her friends fell for it?

mikesteane · 2021-11-23T23:08:30+00:00

I would get a cease and desist letter from a lawyer and back it up with action if necessary.

googitygig · 2021-11-24T00:09:15+00:00

Post this to r/trueoffmychest with background info of how you actually won your defamation case.

There is a concentrated effort from some mods to silence male victims. The admins are refusing to act and the more people who speak up about these mods on their power trips the better.

What this mod is doing is textbook victim blaming. What they said is also a blatant lie as abuse victims are often alienated by friends and family for speaking up. And because of campaigns like #believeher victims of false accusations are even less likely to be believed than before.

Bredac000 · 2021-11-24T00:18:14+00:00

Im sorry. Its so much harder to men to speak out about the abuse that theyve been victim of because of misandrists like this asshat that immediately draw sexist conclusions about the men involved.

RedditMadeMeReddit · 2021-11-24T05:24:00+00:00

They're stating "you're guilty because people didn't believe you" but insisting someone is guilty without evidence will drive people away. It's almost like this sort of stuff feeds into itself.

auMatech · 2021-11-24T07:05:58+00:00

Hilarious:

Given that friends don't tend to abandon people who are completely innocent

What fucking reality does this person reside in?

People abandon others for all sorts of reasons so this is the most abstract indicator to choose to support a claim...

wanthonio31 · 2021-11-24T09:26:55+00:00

What kind of conclusion is this? Innocent people do get abandoned from the public for false accusations. How do they conclusively know guilt from accusations based off that (off of other cases at least). Fuck people like this man

YesterdayFit123 · 2021-11-24T00:35:37+00:00

jesus christ...

RandomEqualist · 2021-11-24T18:40:55+00:00

as much as i agree with this fact that we shouldnt leave our friends over false accusations, theres no way you can tell its fake or true, to get that it needs time. if you were my friend i would leave you, i dont want to be the one close to some one how could be a rapist, i could also be at risk because im a women and dont want any extra risk. so as much as i hate to say this for my safety i would have done what your friends did and back up and wait for the case to develop. chances are the cop do believe her but wont prosecute you or make you do jail time. just get a lawyer and make sure to cooperate with the cops

Explise209 · 2021-11-29T22:15:44+00:00

Victim blaming?

Title	Covered name of asshat.. so I’m a rapist now because my ex told a lie? And her friends fell for it?
Author	Cannibalistic-Toast
Upvotes	143
Comments	31
Date	November 23, 2021 10:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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