I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History

nastynickdr · 2016-08-04T00:24:51+00:00

IMO, theres sexual histories and sexual histories. A girl that has had a few bfs, and a few more guys who she fucked AFTER getting to know him but didnt turn out alright, so around 5-10 partners by age 25 or something, its fine BY ME. But, that ex gf of yours, with 14 guys over one year (thats what she told you, so prob more), including fetishes, one night stands, is clearly not LTR material. A woman who did this will never be satisfied with only one man for her life. And sex to her is "just sex", so when she would feel like getting ravaged by that big black cock it wont count as cheating, because it was just sex.

Also, finding a virgin isnt guarantee of anything. What if your virgin was sucking different cocks every weekend from guys she met at a club? Doing anal to remain "virgin"? Also, theres no guarantee that your virgin wont decide that she now wants to fuck around. So, more important that that IMO is checking for red and green flags. And be always willing to walk when things go south.

There are girls who dont sleep around. What you should do is be always improving yourself, be the highest quality man that you can be, so you can increase your chances of high quality girls being attracted to you. But in the end, its up to you to decide what you accept or not.

trp_acct · 2016-08-03T20:28:37+00:00

There's two types of girls, those that are pump and dumps and those that are worth your time. You get to choose who these girls are. Feminists of this world will love to tell you that their history shouldn't matter to you etc. etc.

Truth is, history matters to a lot of people. Myself included. And, if you are following TRP, how much it matters and what you accept gets to be entirely up to you. You get to set your own standards, and don't have to settle.

Hot girls with history are a pump and dump to me, have sex with them, maybe plate them. Never get more tied than that.

Girls that don't have a history (and fit my other requirements), are LTR material. That's my stance.

There exist people that have different bars. To me, your ex GF would not have been someone I would get more involved with. And, it seems like you're finding out that you wouldn't either.

Summary: Don't let society tell you what you should be willing to accept. Your standards are yours, fuck feminists pulling this shit. Just like they tried to tell us fat girls deserve our time, they try telling us girls with N counts deserve our time.

2016-08-03T20:17:05+00:00

It'd really come down to the situation.

There's a difference between a woman who has had 5 sexual partners in 5 years and one who's had 50.

There's a difference between a woman who's had 50 sexual partners, each one of whom died in a statistically improbable series of lethal events which she was in no way related to, and a woman who's had 5.

Similarly a woman who's dated no one could just be an ice queen, or later turn out to be a turbo slut once you pulled the proverbial cork out of the dike, letting the waters pour in.

Context is important.

FrameWalker · 2016-08-03T22:52:39+00:00

That history is very troubling. Stand by your preferenxes and hpld true to your values.set a standard for ons a standard for plates and a standard for ltrs. If you get attached to a plate next her

2016-08-03T23:20:37+00:00

" I had a GF recently who only had sex with 14 guys. But it was all within a year and a half, including black guy fetishes, getting a train ran on her, and meeting randoms in cheap hotels."

14 in 18 months time is way above average. Also, most women don't get gangbanged, have a fetish for BBC, or screw random guys they barely know.

If those things freak you out and make you NOT want to be in a LTR with someone, then I'll say that I'm with you and probably 95% of the male population is as well (if they had options that is).

If she did 14 in 1.5 years, then in 8.5 more years at that rate she will be in the triple digits easily. That's one hell of a trajectory to be on.

nummas · 2016-08-03T20:25:37+00:00

You need to stop giving a fuck. I'm guessing you have a jealously issue? How many bitches have you fucked? More than one? Double standards in play if so. You need to keep telling yourself that "I can't complain, I have fucked several chicks, get a grip lostinpennsylvania" every time you start to think about it. Next time you meet a girl. Don't ask how many she has been with. If she asks you, tell her that's for you to know and change the topic immediately.

AlphaManliness · 2016-08-03T20:26:46+00:00

probably a church at a young age like 18, at least n-count will be less if not 0

RedAsBlood · 2016-08-04T13:32:32+00:00

Stop asking n-count. Most girls just lie about it anyways. I guarantee the "14" she told you is easily 3-4x that, especially with her behaviour.

Look up the concept of green and red flags.

Title	I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History
Author	lostinpennsylvania
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	August 3, 2016 8:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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