False allegation..

goodmod · 2021-12-12T21:22:54+00:00

You should also post this on r/SupportForTheAccused.

Mr_McAvery · 2021-12-13T04:02:39+00:00

If it was me I would get my story out, if I had to I would make a social media account explaining the story and even posting the court documents stating you’re innocent and eventually people will gain there own opinions.

I did it to my child’s mother years ago because she had sex with me when I was blackout drunk, I will never quit calling her a rapist!

Zimi231 · 2021-12-12T23:26:30+00:00

If I were in your shoes I would sue the absolute fuck out of her, cost be damned. I'd want retribution for ruining my reputation.

Your reputation is you, and she took that from you.

TheSnesLord · 2021-12-13T03:11:22+00:00

I do support women’s rights and the general idea behind feminism

Why the heck are you still supporting feminism? It is the movement that has caused the trouble you're in now.

WingsofSky · 2021-12-13T02:11:50+00:00

Moving halfway across the country and/or changing your name.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-12-12T21:49:22+00:00

I wish i could do more to help you but i feel your pain man.
Dont be mistaken feminism is responsable for this.
Probably a good opportunity to move away for a fresh start right?
Huge respect for men that are going through this i know it could easily happen to me or any other men any day is a constant threath waiting to happen men are second class citizens.

Captain_Save-a-Bro · 2021-12-13T03:17:43+00:00

This is horrible, Im so sorry for what you are going thru. You have 3 choices going forward. 1) You can allow this situation to destroy you. 2) You can weather the storm and then proceed to live a normal life. 3) You can use this situation to radically enhance your life.

I pray that you will use this horrible experience as fuel to propel you to tremendous heights. If this sounds intriguing to you I recommend you read the book "The Obstacle is the Way" by Ryan Holiday. DM me if you want to discuss further. - Peace Brother

MekTam · 2021-12-13T09:20:59+00:00

First off, if you have the funds or the capacity to, move away to a different city or part of the country and start over. Join the gym and any combat sports. It will teach you discipline, help you get mentors, and give you a new circle of friends. Now you have been a naughty boy and santa is sad because you knew that your gf had mental problems and you took her on. Whereas you should not discriminate against anyone for a job, as an aquaintance or as a friend, you should nonetheless vet whom you let into your life and take ad your intimate partner. Given the way the law works and having experienced it first-hand, I think you will not make the same mistake again. Make sure that your future gf is sane, has healed from any possible trauma and fully sipportive of you. Do your due dilligence and make sure that you run a background check upon her and do disclose to her that you were falsely accused when the time is right. Deception either way does not lead to good outcomes. As for feminism, I would perhaps suggest to you to look deeper into your own experience with the legal system and what influence the most prominent legal scholars and disciples of their school of thought have had on the way accused men such as yourself have been treated. To be fair, you should know that just like we say we should not automatically believe all women, we also know that just because you said that you were falsely accused does not mean that we automatically believe you either. It is estimated that about 20 million men (a small fraction of women are also included in this cohort) have been targeted by women with maliciously formulated false allegations. This is an estimate made by the CDC. There are legal scholars who state that as much as 1/6 to 3/10 of accusations are of this nature and early studies conducted by the army also had the same ratios. So even if you persist on your feminist journey, please take into consideration these stats. We ask you neither to believe nor doubt any woman who comes forth with an accusation, merely to be as objective an observer as possible and to investigate the claim with your judgement reserved. Judge not for you shall be reminded of how others judged you. But objectivity is one of those attributes which the mother of feminism (de Beauvoir) and her paedophile lover (Sartre) reject in their post-modern theories, so you would be screwed royally if all aspects of the justice system had operated according to the founding mothers of the movement you are still associated with. You should still stand up for women, just do not do so under a banner which collectively holds men as a group responsible for the sins of the few who do evil. All the best to you.

NewfieBadger · 2021-12-13T02:18:14+00:00

The best revenge is success, brother. Show the devils advocate that you live on despite their ill will. Succeed, and when you do, take every opportunity to taunt, and mock, and rub her gritty nose in spite. When all is said and done, and you feel vindicated, forgive, and move on, but succeed first.

JessilynnMeridythe · 2022-09-30T00:01:31+00:00

any publicity is bad publicity. Bury it. ReInvent your whole way of thinking. Trust me a random stranger.

Title	False allegation..
Author	Nobodybelievesme95
Upvotes	32
Comments	32
Date	December 12, 2021 5:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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