It means he doesn’t want to do it and doesn’t enjoy it and I’m not gonna be a fucking monster who forces him into a sexual act he doesn’t enjoy just because he did it with his previous partner. Yes I like anal. All pressuring him to do it accomplishes is that he actually will become less attracted to me because he won’t look forward to having to perform unpleasant sex acts.

How hard is this to comprehend guys??? Maybe she just doesn’t want to do the sex act and if you push her to do it or nag about her ex. All you’re gonna do is make even less attracted to you by being needy and Retro actively jealous