Going to her place often gives me a good chance if I'm on the second date, I often have to drive and follow her to her apartment. Does it generally just lead to dryness if they see your place? For example, I'm crashing in a relative's home's living room. It might be awkward but I'd do it, I just can't be bothered and want to save myself the drama, from the family side.

Will she care? I often date women who are either in solid careers (teacher, marketer etc) and have their own apartments or live with atleast one roommate who I rarely want to get to know. It's a strike at my ego, most of the women who have taken me to their homes do not often know about my living situation. My friend who also literally lives in a garage turned granny flat can't be bothered. Inb4 get a better place, I had my own place. In a transition to getting back a degree.

We can do it at a national park, the beach, I can even rent out a motel but are options more limited or stacked against for guys like us?