I wanna start by saying I hope that I will not be judged I just need reassurance. I am 21 and I am dating someone who is 47. (Just some background) I am used to dating High Earning men closer to my age but I decided to go a little older. We have been dating exclusively for about a year. When we first started talking he love bombed me telling me how much he would spoil me and take care of me but he wouldn't start until we had sex. I foolishly fell for it and ended up having sex with him. But, the spoiling never started. He sometimes gives me money for my nails, gas, groceries, and we go out for dinner 3/4 times a week. Now here is my dilemma. A few months ago, I was short on rent due to some medical bills I had to handle. Of course, I asked him for the money, and he said no because it is not his responsibility to pay my bills since I am not his wife. That really rubbed me the wrong way and made me feel used. Am I wrong to want to date around or should I just dump him completely? Thanks!