About Tinder dating.....

auMatech · 2022-01-24T06:43:14+00:00

I'm 22 years old and I've quit the apps and I've flirted in college, and I've done much better, I'm not so shy anymore and I'm just being myself and not pretending to be someone else.

This is the best course of action. Those apps aren't really designed to get you a hookup, they are designed to get you hooked on the dopamine hits from swiping.

https://bootcamp.uxdesign.cc/are-you-falling-for-dating-apps-b523c56e2e11

IShitOnPastries · 2022-01-24T08:03:42+00:00

First, I'm not going to be too obnoxious about this, but is this really a men's rights issue? It seems more concerned with dating.

Anyway, OP, from a guy who was plenty successful with women until he got married, you're absolutely right not to waste your time on Tinder. Men and women go on Tinder for different reasons. The overwhelming majority of men want a chance at getting laid, and the overwhelming majority of women want a confidence boost. The average woman on Tinder has thousands of guys waiting for matches. This just breeds narcissism and entitlement.

I'm not going to be picked out as a guy like a fucking product in a catalogue, thank you very much.

DavidByron2 · 2022-01-24T22:54:59+00:00

I've flirted in college

Watch out for being falsely accused of rape, especially if you're black.

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-01-24T06:17:51+00:00

I’m 21 and in University and have came to the same conclusion. Unless you are delusional, for the average man, Tinder is a no go. You should spend time cultivating social circle game and cold approach. I approached a girl the other day from my class and I took her on an instant coffee date. Now I’m not sure if it will go any farther with her, but regardless, it’s an example that you can get dates without apps. Ditch the apps and put yourself out there: join clubs, talk to girls in your class, go to parties, etc. But I will say that I made a mistake not joining a fraternity because the truth is that fraternity guys get the majority of girls.

duhhhh · 2022-01-24T11:12:41+00:00

It is pure basic mathematics, 1000 men for 200 women gives you a 0.2 chance to have a match

That would be true only if the women had equal preference for all 1000 men, and were just picking them at random.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-24T06:10:48+00:00

I'm 22 years old and I quit the apps

Man, your SMV peak starts at 32.

Build yourself up and avoid marriage like a plague. Don't waste your time on women and dating.

The only exception is if a young 18-22, virtuous, loyal and family oriented woman pursues you and wants to build her life with you together.

This is very, very rare. The vast majority of college women have been run through 100+ Ds. They irreversibly lost their pair bonding ability. They are hook up material at best, watch out for STDs and baby trapping with them.

I like one of the latest SSM's video which describes the degenerated state of modern western college women.

Search on YouTube: UPDATE - 50 Year Old Former Bad Boy/Chad Shares Just How Idiotic "They" Can Be When It Comes To Men

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-24T07:23:20+00:00

According to OKCupid women 30-48 have more options than men 30-48.

For a hookup women any age have way more options to have sex than a man same age. They can just say free P and there will be a queue lining up.

If a man advertises he offers a free D there will be no queue.

Women and men are different. A lock which can be opened by every key is worthless. It takes zero effort for a woman to have sex. Avoid such women like a plague. They are damaged, make bad choices, cannot pair bond and will cheat on you.

A key which opens many locks is worth gold. It takes a lot of effort for a man to have sex with a woman.

I gave you the best advice I could. You do you, you rock your own boat. Good luck man!

Byeqriouz · 2022-01-24T17:04:27+00:00

So, how is dating outside of the internet any different? Every woman has thousands of men who would duck her anytime. So they are just as selective even with a 50/50 distribution.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-25T14:06:05+00:00

"Not every man is a rapist, but every man can be a rapist"

100% right. You see a man or a group of men in a dark alley after sunset, you avoid them. It's a potentially risky situation. They all can be wonderful gentlemen but you don't want to put yourself at risk in a dark alley if they aren't.

Same applies to men in the context of LTRs/ marriages. Divorce grape and family court laws grinder is a real risk when you deal with degenerate women. You either avoid this risk all together or are aware of bait & switch / baby trapping tactics and watch out for red flags.

I actually agree that everyone should be educated on red flags and things to avoid, both men and women need this.

We agree on this one.

Title	About Tinder dating.....
Author	ET-Osmio-180599
Upvotes	48
Comments	28
Date	January 24, 2022 3:32 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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