Guy wants to go on a date but wants me to pick a place and time.

2340000 · 2022-02-13T00:26:01+00:00

NO fucking way are we agreeing to that🙄

Men know exactly what they're doing. They want us to "earn" a planned date, prove our worth, and never expect effort.

One guy tried with me and he was blocked.

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-02-13T00:27:35+00:00

A movie for a first date 🙄 oh yeah and I bet you pick the movie and pay for your own ticket too. What a lazy scum!

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-02-13T00:58:15+00:00

Just take yourself out on a date at that point. No need to audition for a barnacle.

icy_lilies · 2022-02-13T01:04:15+00:00

It's a huge red flag. What we look for in a partner isn't someone who sits in the passenger seat and expects everything to be planned out for him. This is how women end up being the ''manager'' of everything household-related while the guy vegetates comfortably in the weaponized incompetency zone.

Asking a woman on a date and asking her to plan it = low/no effort. It's direspectful of her time and energy and shows that he's not interested (otherwise he would suggest something that impresses her).

When a guy tries this on me, he's blocked and deleted. I ain't got time to plan HIS date that HE invited me on.

PlumHot7169 · 2022-02-13T00:32:35+00:00

If you want to dumb fox credo, you can say “I’m used to guys planning the first dates. If it’s too difficult to do we’re probably not compatible.” See his response.

Honestly I’d prob rather Blockity block block bc I don’t want to guide a lame horse to water.

If he’s got any awareness, he’ll learn from it. If he doesn’t, he’ll get a pickme girl that is never going to be satisfied w his low effort.

simply-dumpling · 2022-02-13T00:14:35+00:00

if they ask they should plan. i hate when they fucking do that

AAlegend8 · 2022-02-13T01:17:47+00:00

So basically he wants you to do all the work. 👎🏻

throwAM1230987 · 2022-02-13T01:01:40+00:00

Maybe he just wants to make sure you like the place? Maybe suggest a type of place (Thai? Sushi?) and then ask him to pick one? So he’s making an effort, but also knows what you like.

Title	Guy wants to go on a date but wants me to pick a place and time.
Author	bambina133
Upvotes	66
Comments	9
Date	February 13, 2022 12:11 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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