If you remember me from my last post on this sub, I have an update for you.

Two days ago we got into a huge car crash. The car is destroyed, and my mom was the driver. Thankfully nothing happened and no one is seriously injured, but my dad’s face has some scars from the broken glass since he was sitting in the front seat.

I didn’t realize how shitty he acted due to the shock of the crash, but now looking back, it is official, he is a full blown narcissistic sociopath who doesn’t give a single shit about his “family”, if he considers us that.

After the crash, my mom was going crazy for us, her children, and us, the children, were asking each other and our parents whether they were good or not. This man didn’t ask a single thing. Then, at the hospital, the same thing. The after a long day we came home, the same thing. This time, he demanded that my mom (who was severeky psychologically affected) prepares him food. Then, the next morning, he demands we bring him some shit from others rooms and things like that while continuing to not ask us whether we are good or not.

Mind you, we could’ve literally died. It was a bad crash. The car is destroyed.

He doesn’t give a shit. He foesn’t ask us how we are. He doesn’t try to help around tidying up the house or our belongings. He doesn’t prepare his own food or prepare food for us. He keeps demanding stuff and service.

Honestly, it is so sad. The last piece of love in me for him has disappeared. If he doesn’t care about us in a near death situation, when will he do it? When will he get off his ass and take care of us as a father should? When will he decide its time to let my mom rest?

Never. I can’t take him anymore. I can’t wait until I move out and leave his ass without contanct and watch him struggle to reach out to me because imagine the way his perfect social imagine will shatter when his only daughter, who is also loved socialy cuts contact with him. His life is going to take such a big turn and he is not ready for it.