This trait IMO isn’t immutable behavior of woman, and is likely a collective defense mechanisms, aimed towards the broad spectrum of “shitty guys” they’d prefer to ward off. However, it has become second-nature, impulsive and even enjoyable for some woman to continue projecting this behavior onto all men collectively. And it’s destroying dating.

It’s just the truth in 2022: Women love to shame men when they don’t conform to a man’s natural/usual tendencies and/or contemporarily masculine features, while simultaneously excusing women who do the same w/ their femininity. It’s another old double standard women can’t seem to let go of yet.

Imagine if I made belittling and condescending jokes about how much effort woman (or even more specifically my gf) had to put into make-up, or their irritability around their time of the month, or their emotional insecurities related to their childhood. I’d be labeled a “woman hater” for the rest of my life. A woman does it to a guy? “YASSS QUEEN”.

Toxic Femininity. Let’s hash it out.