My son (17) lives in Europe and my daughter (14) is in the U.S. I'm getting divorced from my wife. She cheated. After reading my wife's journals (which is how I found out) I am worried that I'm leaving my daughter in the hands of an emotionally unstable person who is going to have a hard time getting back on her feet while taking care of my daughter. My wife has some serious mood swings and is often depressed. Probably because of our relationship but not sure if that's really it and she's just aiming her gun at me and blaming me for everything and anything. I don't know what I should do or how to deal with this concern. My son needs me and so does my daughter. My wife has been a super great mother to her kids during our marriage, but I'm still concerned. She once told (and apologized later) my daughter that she hated her. What kind of mother does that to a child?