I was accused of DV and became homeless. Met a lot of homeless guys in the shelters and soup kitchens who basically had the same story. Life was going at least okay, got accused of DV/SA, immediately lost their home, lost their job at the same time or a few days later bc sleeping/eating very little and unable to function well enough at work due to malnourishment and sleep deprivation.
Also, rant: didn't help that I had no IDs on me. Police say they checked my home where I told them to check for my IDs and said they weren't there. IDs are required here to apply for welfare and to live at some homeless shelters.
Anyone else became homeless here when accused of DV?
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This is what the family court system encourages. You have NO incentive to do better because you have a horrendous ex who will be there to try and take it. Men can pay for what their kids need themselves and in a lot of cases are now being given 50/50 custody to which there should be no child support involved.
I've thought a lot about things if my ex goes after me for more child support. I took a job that paid less to get through the divorce to drive down income and then got a new job and have not told her or even my kids. It sucks balls that I have to hide a part of my life because of her. But I will not pay more because some feminist anti-male judge tells me to. I won't cooperate and I won't care what they try to do to me. The idea that it's "best for the kids" to throw a parent in jail because they refuse to be a paycheck to an ex is INSANE!
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