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"It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.

throwaway20210821

May 15, 2022
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Title "It's a private company, they can do what they want". How is that going to unfold in Australia when Uber's policies allowing female drivers to refuse giving male passengers rides potentially runs afoul of refuse service laws? Corporate whims and tribunals are no friend of men's rights.
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[–]ObserverBlueleft-wing male advocate 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This reminds me of how in my country they recently suggested the idea of having female-only subway wagons (it already exists in some other countries).

"Think of women" may be the new "think of the children" (in fact, it's arguably not new, there's a reason "women and children" is a thing). I sometimes wonder whether at this point we will truly end up with separate female-only, male-only cities. I actually remember a comment on r/worldnews (the post was about the Taliban) saying how much women would love that idea for their own safety. Nothing like sharing the views of the Taliban on the fact that men and women should be segregated.

Anyone could have an extensive discussion about whether this in fact keeps women safe or not. But I personally wonder whether a world that practices segregation in the name of women's safety could unintentionally create a notion...that women are vulnerable and fragile (that would certainly be an irony, fighting sexism against women...only to create more sexism against women).

Personally? As long as men are still given the same services (whether by designating drivers, subway wagons or whatever), I wouldn't mind if they implemented female-only versions if they want. If they made sure to always have enough drivers that will attend men, good. If there were no such mechanism, then I would have a problem.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A segregationist world isn't an equal one. There have already been instances showing this with apartheid rule in South Africa and the Jim Crow era in the United States. "Separate but equal" is a fiction. One group is always treated better than the other. In this situation, the group being treated better is women, at men's expense.

Just like with disappearing privacy, online censorship and intelligence gathering, corrupt resource and services distribution and infringement on civil rights will be done largely by private companies and not the government, making it much easier for these things to happen than if it was a purely public sector effort.

That's why Australian men need to use the laws put in place by the Australian government to sue Uber for this policy and make it less likely that such policies will be allowed in the future, or it will get worse.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

(that would certainly be an irony, fighting sexism against women...only to create more sexism against women).

You're describing feminism's modus operandi. In a slave morality (Nietzsche), victims are the ones who have power so it's very important for feminism to maintain women's status as perpetual victims.

Making women appear frail, weak and victimized whenever it's important to cast men as domineering, dangerous dogs is an easy way to accomplish this.

[–]Fellow_Infidel 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Horseshoe theory all over again

[–]TheSpaceDuck 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can't even begin to imagine the outrage if white drivers could refuse black passengers "for safety"? I know a couple groups who, just like feminists, would claim "the statistics justify it".

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Another article about this, this time from LadBible: https://archive.ph/Vic04

A new policy in Australia will allow female drivers to reject giving rides to male passengers because of them being male and under the excuse of "safety" and increasing the amount of women passengers.

Apply this to any situation where discrimination on the basis of intrinsic characteristics is involved.

A business decides to limit service on whim to black customers using the excuse of wanting "safety for white customers" and "increasing the amount of white customers". Clearly unacceptable and illegal. It would be met with lawsuits, government investigations, and firing of the people on the company that oversaw this policy.

A business decides to limit service to gay customers using the excuse of wanting "safety for straight customers" and "increasing the amount of straight customers". Clearly unacceptable and illegal. It would be met with lawsuits, government investigations, and firing of the people on the company that oversaw this policy.

Here this policy is discriminating against male passengers on the basis of biological sex. Yet it is being defended, especially by feminists that claim to be champions of equal rights and not treating men any lesser than women.

Here is what the refuse service law in Australia has to say about this:

https://business.gov.au/people/customers/refuse-service#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20Australian%20Human,gender%20identity%20and%20intersex%20status

It states that the only exceptions where discrimination by business may be permitted is due to behavior of a customer or "when factual evidence supports that the discrimination is reasonable in the circumstances.".

There is neither such acceptable reasons here. Male customers aren't more unruly than female customers and there is no factual evidence supporting that this kind of discrimination is acceptable. This move by Uber is purely meant as a way to marginalize its male customer base in hopes of getting more female customers.Yet it is being defended by feminists using the same neoliberal arguments that many here have heard before "it's a private company, they can do what they want".

This is an example of how corporate whims and policies and setups where this is even more extreme (like corporate tribunals) can be used to reverse civil rights, starting with groups that it is already acceptable to marginalize, such as men.

Who will utlimately triumph here? This will be a good situation imo to see how Australian government policies keeping corporate power in check fare against feminist identity politics.

[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do we have a better source for this than the Daily Mail?

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, the LadBible article on it seems to explain things well without any media hype or speculation: https://archive.ph/Vic04

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is interesting and if there isn’t pushback I will be surprised.

What it does suggest is that Ubers problems with attracting drivers, who are primarily men, has gotten worse, and they are using this as a way to attract women who would drive but aren’t comfortable driving men.

Personally I’m doubtful that’s a statistically significant number of women. Driving is shit house work and I doubt such people would last long.

[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the same as any other industry.

There is no shortage of workers. There is a shortage of well-paid jobs. So, if they need more drivers, they just need to pay them better.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yet it is being defended by feminists using the same neoliberal arguments that many here have heard before "it's a private company, they can do what they want".

Those are uninformed opinions. Private companies can't "do whatever they want"; otherwise we wouldn't have ANY worker's rights, anywhere.

Businesses are not allowed to discriminate on the basis of gender if there's a law against that.

Ideally...

Human Rights Tribunal in Ontario, for instance, ruled that since men were 'not really being hurt by this considering their privilege", it was okay for a club to charge men an entry fee but let women in for free.

Of course that's a Kangaroo Court that for some reason has been given actual power in Canada so it's not really precedent-setting.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

While feminists come from a diverse range of ideological backgrounds (ranging from far left to far right to centrist), the ones in western countries keep defaulting to neoliberal arguments when defending discrimination against men, without fail, even the feminists that claim to be leftists.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some might say that's because feminism is a CIA-backed ideology, as are the woke. They both serve to divide the working class against itself by stratifying us by identity type and de-emphasizing, even rebuking, our common bond as fellow humans and fellow workers.

Some might say that their effectiveness in destroying class consciousness would make them attractive to COINTELPRO-like government programs regardless of the original intent of the movements.

Not me, though. I prefer to keep control of my car.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't believe that necessarily. I just believe they are online crybullies that want to feel righteous about their bullying, like Futrelle, ShitRedditSays, tumblr radfems: all of this started around 2010/2011.

Whether they were later funded or used to shut down, mis-direct and stall discussion and real progress on class issues is entirely possible, but I think these interesectionalist crybully feminist types that make a mockery out of true equality are an organic phenomenon enabled by social media and web 2.0 quote mining and "mocking" oriented blog sites, as well as a trend to a sort of sousveillance culture. For example, mugshots and gossip about the average person and controversy about what they said passing as news stories didn't even used to be that common prior to 2007/2008/2009 (justified at the time as online newspapers needing to make money because of the Great Recession, but predictably continuing even after the recession), it used to be confined to celebrities and those that agreed to be in the public eye.

Their defaulting to neoliberal arguments is just the most convenient way they get away with advocating harm to and targeting males they don't like through personal, private sector enabled means.

Returning to the issue of the means by which discrmination and double standards are advocated, the AA policy discriminating against males was spurred on by complaints from radical feminists on social media https://archive.is/LRJff , as was reversal of the bannings of radfem subs like BlatantMisogyny and BanFemaleHateSubs https://archive.fo/3HM9y

[–]TheLWMA 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"It's a private company, they can do what they want".

Unless Elon Musk buys it.

[–]xhouliganx[🍰] 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Or they refuse to bake a cake for a gay wedding.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

This is also applicable to efforts to constrain corporate power for a few reasons:

  • Leaving this issue to the free market is not guaranteed to work. There is the chance that this policy will be successful and mimicked by other ride sharing companies like Lyft and Bolt. That leaves men disenfranchised and out of options when trying to find any ride sharing apps.
  • This doesn't stop at ride sharing. The AA UK, a commercial road service company, has already announced it will be discriminating against men, offering transportation services to women first and foremost https://archive.is/LRJff
  • Policies like this can be used to deny men access to resources such as food, transportation and housing, given how many services previously offered by the government have become privatized and the rise of the gig economy. How for example will men stop policies like this (https://archive.ph/7KUH6) from being enacted when there are no administrations to vote out? If food and aid is controlled by a handful of companies and all those companies prioritize women in their official policies, how is anyone going to even stop them?
  • This is familiar to the issue of trade deals like the TPP further constricting speech in favor of corporations. What if policies like this being successfully unchallenged and left in place lead to corporate tribunals that feedback to more policies like this put in place? In the past few decades, it was internet censorship that was under threat from biased corporate policies like this. Now it seems like resource distribution is coming under assault, where men will be put last under disingenuous appeals to "safety" and maximizing marketshare of the "right" demographic (which isn't men).

It is very clear that Australian men need to sue Uber under the refuse service laws in an effort to get them to overturn this policy, or more policies like this (and not just in the ride sharing business, but other gig economy businesses, such as food and resource distribution) will become more common.

Some organizations they might be able to reach out to for help with this lawsuit are:

The Australian Men's Rights Association: https://australianmensrights.com/default.aspx

Men's Rights Agency: https://mensrights.com.au/

[–]MelissaMiranti 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Policies like this can be used to deny men access to resources such as food

The UN already does that in disaster zones, choosing to distribute food exclusively to women. If you're a man who is alone, no food for you.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it shows how the UN has undergone regulatory capture by feminist special interests and have neglected their original mission of equal application of human rights, but they are a government body that can hypothetically have funding restricted to them and be abolished.

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With private companies like Uber, it's arguably just as bad if not worse, because there is no one to vote out, no way to abolish such companies that are engaging in such practices if there is already a corporate precedent (which may or may not be set with pending lawsuits against this policy in the near future) in favor of such discriminatory policies, the knock-on effect of such policies being mimicked by other companies, and the persistent trend towards outsourcing all public services to private companies like Uber (which not only specializes in ride sharing but also food distribution, like with UberEats).

[–]_reficio_ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It is very clear that Australian men need to sue Uber under the refuse service laws

It's Australians, irrespective of gender, that need to take action here. Men will lose directly and unjustly, but women also need to be active in calling out such policies, especially with the legal profession majority female and 2:1 female in professions <30 years old.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

While any lawsuits against Uber for this policy would be welcome, I'm not exactly sure that women will be calling out such policies when it benefits them and when they only stand to gain from the possibility of having more female drivers and passengers from this policy.

It's not like family court where women sometimes lose out too and are negatively effected.

There is nothing in this policy that denies them the right to do anything or is a setback to them, they can approve or disapprove of giving rides to male passengers on whim if they are an Uber driver, with no consequence or judgement either way.

[–]_reficio_ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The ability to self-regulate is critical to maintaining legitimacy - just look at US politics and the Republicans, in particular, to see what happens if your side's excesses aren't curtailed. Equality requires men calling out the gendered excesses of men and women doing the same for other women.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree women should be calling out the gendered excesses pushed by feminists. However, from the policies Uber is putting forth, none of them seem to in any way disadvantage women. They only advantage women, and so feminists are all for these policies and I don't even see any tradcons complaining either.

The reason I said men need to bring lawsuits is because it is male passengers being discriminated against here. It would be great if women could bring lawsuits against Uber for discriminatory policies like this on the behalf of men, but then I look at other issues that affect men and see how the primary advocates for those issues are mainly men and wonder: how likely is that, really?

Credit to the NCFM-Women Against False Accusations (@NCFM_Women) on twitter though, they've been supporting the #uberhatesmen campaign against this discriminatory Uber policy.

[–]_reficio_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It would be great if women could bring lawsuits against Uber for discriminatory policies like this on the behalf of men, but then I look at other issues that affect men and see how the primary advocates for those issues are mainly men and wonder: how likely is that, really?

That's exactly why women need to call it out. Discrimination is discrimination. Men should call out discrimination against women and women against men. Failing to do that fuels identitarian tribalism, not and takes us away from an institution that's fair and just for all.

[–]ChimpPimp20 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine you finally land a job after acing the interview and take an uber to get there:

*Inner monologue*

Yes, I'm finally gonna make it out my mom and dad's basement!!

*Calls the building*

Yeah, so...I'm actually gonna be a bit late...

[–]YooGeOh1 points 4 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree with the idea of female drivers only taking female passengers if they so wish. I disagree with inconveniencing the customer by matching them to a drover who can then refuse to take them.

Why not slightly amend the tech behind the app so that female drivers are only given female users in the first place, therefore eliminating the need for the driver to refuse a passenger?

It's almost like certain places would prefer to inconvenience themselves to make a political point than to actually help the people they claim to be helping

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's almost like certain places would prefer to inconvenience themselves to make a political point than to actually help the people they claim to be helping

That's exactly what needs to be stressed here. This has nothing to do with "women's safety", it is marginalizing and humiliating their male customers in hopes of increasing their marketshare with customers who aren't male. There is nothing altruistic or well intentioned about what they are doing, and they are acting like they are not running afoul of discrimination laws to try and make it seem like they are doing nothing wrong.

[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate[M] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We do not advocate for gender discrimination here.

Removed as rule 2 violation.

[–]Frank_Bianco 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I said it elsewhere, I'll say it here.

Good. I'd rather support a brother with my money.
They want to cut off their noses to spite their faces? More power to them. They can go whinge about the 'wage gap' after turning down all their fares.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

The problem comes when this isn't restricted to ride sharing, but food and housing.

Such a world leaves men to fend for themselves and be completely left without any assistance or safety net, now that the safety net was privatized and the companies these tasks were outsourced to have instated policies that put men last.

"Go woke go broke" doesn't work. There was expected to be a surge in demand for products for single men as marriage rates declined and less men were getting married. It never happened.

How are you going to boycott companies when they all eventually have this policy? How are you going to deal with cutting yourself off from the services they provide when the services they provide are basic necessities like food and shelter? This "women's safety" rationale has the potential to lead to this, just as censorship of the internet and moderation policies (including here on reddit) have already been undertaken using the rationale of "women's safety".

[–]Frank_Bianco 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Such a world leaves men to fend for themselves and be completely left without any assistance or safety net

Men are already denied access to assistance to food, housing, and safety. It's already happened; there's no potentiality about it Protections are for 'Women and families', with families being women with kids. (Depending on your location, I guess, maybe men still qualify somewhere.)

I don't fundamentally disagree with you. In this particular case, however, if women contractors don't want men's money, I am glad to put it in the hands of a male worker. Who definitely needs it, because ride sharing, gig work in general, is exploitative bullshyte.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men are already denied access to assistance to food, housing, and safety. It's already happened; there's no potentiality about it Protections are for 'Women and families', with families being women with kids. (Depending on your location, I guess, maybe men still qualify somewhere.)

And yet there's still claims that there isn't any male oppression, from the same people that claim to be solving oppression of women by oppressing men. They have a good grift going, the oppressors pretending to be the oppressed and pretending that those being oppressed are the oppressors.

Nevertheless, policies like this by Uber are still recent and need to be challenged. I wasn't seeing policies like this even a few years back. It's rapidly getting worse and will assuredly keep getting worse as long as there are no legal challenges to this kind of thing.

It's also a good reminder of how damaging outsourcing all services to corporations has been. Indirectly, men's rights would benefit from this not being the situation, as it is easier to hold government to task for this kind of thing (since they are providing a public service) than corporations (which hide behind the excuse that they are a private entity and not bound to laws that constrain corruption and civil rights abuses in public services).

That basic rights and considerations have the potential to be easily undone by corporate messaging about women's safety is wild, but here we are.

[–]Frank_Bianco 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's also a good reminder of how damaging outsourcing all services to corporations has been. Indirectly, men's rights would benefit from this not being the situation, as it is easier to hold government to task for this kind of thing

I'm not sure if your taxi services are socialised. Most often, they are private companies, and not subject to any different scrutinies than Uber.

I have found that government's 'accountability' has had them first to jump on the bandwagon of putting women's issues in policies' forefront; and then enacting rules to make it enforceable.

Regardless, chasing this slippery-slope fallacy is a rabbit hole I don't need. If you want to fight for your right to make women drive you around, I'll stand beside you, because solidarity and awareness are what's going to effect change in the long term.

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you want to fight for your right to make women drive you around

It's not about that. It's about opposing an instance where men are denied service. It's not because it's women refusing to give rides to men, it's that drivers are allowed to discriminate against men on whim, justified by seemingly altruistic appeals to "women's safety".

​

It's marginalization and humiliation of men designed to increase their marketshare with other customers dressed up as a social good, and that is repugnant and shouldn't be repeated, and needs to be opposed to lessen the chance of other companies adopting similar policies. Policies like this just cement the second class citizen status of men and marginalize them even more than they already are.

[–]Frank_Bianco 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay. Good day, Sir.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This isn't about you, though. This about the effect it has on the national psyche.

To all the men who still respect feminism and think it's how they become a good person, this is reinforcing the idea that they have an inherent evil inside them because of their gender and so it's reasonable for women to turn down male passengers.

The power isn't in the policy but in the messaging.

[–]Frank_Bianco 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn't about you, though

The comment was entirely about me, and where my money goes.
It's a shyte policy, and a shyte message, I never disagreed. But If my dollar goes to a working man because of their stupidity, good. My feelings aren't hurt by corporate kowtowing.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Late to this, but this just shows another of the problems with the gig economy.

While the legacy taxi industry is not perfect, the whole point of services like Uber is to reduce overheads like having to screen and train your drivers rigorously. Uber itself is there to make as much money as possible by providing as a little oversight and safe structure as possible.

What would you expect but people abusing it? You're basically getting into a car with a stranger who has almost no accountability to anyone.

Eventually, government regulations of gig economy services will impose so many costs that they cease to be more affordable and efficient than the legacy services they replaced.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

But they will still have replaced those legacy services successfully, thereby setting a precedent for how to be successful - flout the law until the government finally gets off its ass to do something about it.

Capital loves learning lessons like that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Really good point and I agree.

But I do think this was all part of a specific "technology is disruptive and that's so cool" moment in our culture. I think that moment is quickly coming to an end now. Sending tech billionaires into space probably marked the beginning of the end.

Not saying that we won't have other abusive moments like this in the future, or that we haven't had them in the past (the Gilded Age comes to mind) but they won't look exactly like that.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'd like to believe that too but I haven't really seen the evidence for it.

I also don't pay a lot of attention to technology culture, however, so I'm not saying the evidence isn't there just that I haven't seen it.

I don't see government effectively regulating technology anytime in the future. Honestly, it feels like the wind has gone out of them. Even before the pandemic, we have seen too many decades of listless and ineffectual governments unwilling to nation-build.

We can't look to them to save us. Particularly not now that the places we call home are being like a business, not a country.

We will need an exo-system, something that runs parallel but as separated as possible from what's already been built (and co-opted by Capital).

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, I just meant that I think the public's naivety toward Silicon Valley hype is waning.

Couldn't agree more that governments in the Western world have given up on nation-building. It would take a serious crisis to reverse that (even COVID wasn't enough).

re: the exo-system, this makes me think of the parallel, post-carbon economy David Fleming talks about in Lean Logic, or the more condensed Surviving The Future.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

As I'm serious about the exo-system, I'll have to read that book. Thanks for the recommendation.

Let me ask you, now that we're in the weeds of the sub: If an organization offered to adequately supply everyone who joined them with their basic needs, and that organization was an exo-system that manifestly addressed the problems of this world and worked to solve them, do you think you or others would join or be interested in joining?

I just see so many people who, in the worlds of PT Anderson, "have so much love but just don't know where to put it", who want to help but despair at finding any uncorrupted place to do so.

If people knew they could join this organization and be provided for life as long as they do the appropriate, humane and fairly compensated work that not only manifestly helps people but creates an example society wherein every single person is the most valuable commodity and where finding a place for every single person that balances benefit to them with benefit to their community?

Where every single person is working for one another while also supporting each other's journey to self-actualization?

All as an example for a world where 7.9 billion people work for the benefit of each other?

If that existed, and it wasn't a shame, and it was legit...

Would people give up their Starbucks, their Playstations, their daily comforts in order to work for a better world?

Would you? Or your friends?


It's not a small question and it's off-topic so I appreciate any data you can give me here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Wow, you're not wrong that's a big question. If I'm honest, I think what you're suggesting is very idealistic.

To give you some context on where I'm coming from, I spent a number of years as part of a cohousing project. Cohousing is a very light form of intentional community where 20-30 households work together to develop their own "neighbourhood" of homes with significant shared spaces. Unlike a commune, there's no shared purse other than a beefed-up body corporate / owners corporation. The homes all have their own kitchens and bathrooms in addition to the big shared dining and kitchen area. The idea is to eat together several times a week and to share a number of other resources too.

Now the vast majority of actual communes fail, and this has been true for hundreds of years in Western nations. The ones that succeed past the 3 year mark are typically monasteries and other religious communities.

But, after 7 years, we still couldn't make even cohousing work. We still hadn't built the thing. And this was comfortable, middle and upper-middle class people in a major 1st-world city, with the time and skills to run fortnightly meetings for a decade. We couldn't even construct the lightest form of intentional community. (Unceasing, skyrocketing property prices didn't help.)

I took a couple of things from that experience, but the biggest one was that idealistic approaches to economy and community are almost impossible within our atomised, consumer culture. It's like trying to support a multicellular organism in a toxic environment that can only support unicellular ones.

My thinking now is a lot less direct. I believe we are well into the era of decline for industrial civilisation, that parallel, localised and informal economies will inevitably rise, and that they will ultimately replace the failing formal economy once it can no longer be sustained.

But I think this process will take at least a century or two, give or take major geopolitical or environmental crises.

Sadly, I think you and I live in a liminal time, like the Romans in the days of their mid Empire. We're not necessarily going to get a big bang that changes everything. Instead, a lot of things are just going to get gradually crappier, and we have to try to set out patterns for how to work around that slow crapification.

It's not all bad. People are going to rediscover neighbours and slowly develop informal economic relationships with them, with less monetary intermediation. I predict a gradual disconnection from increasingly irrelevant social media, and a reinvigoration of face-to-face community. Men, I hope, are going to rediscover community with eachother like they had in most of history - one of the themes that I like to harp on about on men's subs.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for your feedback. While I don't agree with everything, it helps to hear anyways.

However, I think we lost track of the question. Given a hypothetical organization that overcomes all these problems, that offers people a provably legitimate way to help others while also having their basic needs taken care of, one that solves your concerns...

How many people do you think would choose to join and dedicate their lives to the greatest project humanity has ever known?

If I'm honest, I think what you're suggesting is very idealistic.

So do I! I'm okay with that because so was the birth of democracy. It was just paired with good planning and rigorous thought.

I don't see why that's not possible to do again.

We've been to the moon and back; we can figure out a way to equitably distribute resources.

It's not all bad.

I think it will be a train wreck of Snowpiercer proportions and we'll be set back for centuries if anything else.

It's our job to start building replacement track as fast as possible so we can ease the transition from one state to the other.

We have the time, communication networks, access to information, everything we need to change what we can instead of resigning ourselves to decline and dooming future generations to that much worse a future.

Nothing's inevitable and even if you believe it is, we can at least soften the decline.

Anyways, that's where I'm coming from. Thanks for your honest feedback.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Given a hypothetical organization that overcomes all these problems, that offers people a provably legitimate way to help others while also having their basic needs taken care of

OK, but on what level does this organisation operate? Is it global? National? Local? Is it run voluntarily or does it receive government funding?

You might be aware that, prior to the rise of government services and welfare with the New Deal in the US, some social services like medical insurance and support were actually done by lodges and other voluntary organisations.

In terms of distributing resources, I think we will need to look beyond the two options that have come to dominate our imaginations since the 20th century: neoliberal corporate capitalism and bureaucratic state socialism.

Both options have been tried and found wanting. They could barely work equitably when overall energy and food resources were growing, let alone in times of resource decline.

There are other options, which of course will have their own issues too: cooperativism/syndicalism, distributism, social credit. An option like cooperativism has the advantage that it can be built up from small to big rather than needing to be imposed top-down from the beginning.

[+]FenaPugi -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It's okay, men can just identify as a woman when their uber driver is a woman.

The second our feet touch the pavement we can go back to identifying as a man.

We'll be called: TransUbers

[–]throwaway20210821[S] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This kind of thing doesn't work. You will be accused of downplaying the struggles of marginalized groups.

Does men identifying as women get them out of mandatory military "service"? It doesn't. They know the loopholes, they won't even allow you to tune things to your favor.

[–]peanutbutterjamsleft-wing male advocate 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it didn't work for Klinger in MAS*H, it's not going to work for us.

[–]FenaPugi -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They won't even allow you to tune things to your favor yet*.

[–]lightning_palmleft-wing male advocate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What makes you conclude that men will be able to identify as a woman in the future to avoid gendered laws / policies that disadvantage men?

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