My ex is mentally ill. I filed for divorce and temp orders to get full custody and eject her from the house. We went on to have a relatively peaceful divorce and split everything including custody and decision making. I didnt have the finances to challenge her, I also didnt want to the lids from their mother.

Now almost a year later she is bi-polar with her civility and can be very nice or extremely aggressive. She basically black mailed me to get a parent coordinator with a lawyer letter full of lies. Now I am set to meet with the parent coordinator and I dont know if I play it cool and just be me or open the book and show her how crazy she is. My concern is its not confidential and things are peaceful for now. I also don’t want her to get chummy with the parent coordinator and have her turn her against me. So the question is how much do I share to protect myself?