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How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?

NakedNyx

July 8, 2022
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Title How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?
Author

NakedNyx

Upvotes 9
Comments 19
Date July 8, 2022 6:00 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/vugrsv/how_many_of_you_that_got_caught_up_in_red_pill/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/how-many-of-you-that-got-caught-up-in-red-pill-are.1122553
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Comments

[–]Artistic_Chip 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There are tons of posts on here about Autism, why?

[–]NakedNyx 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it's a large part of Red Pill's listener/practitioner base and they deserve to be heard. Many being depressed/MDD, anxious, ADHD, Autistic, or other mental health issues signaling that often it wasn't the personality of the men causing the issues (like it was being accused). It was likely symptoms of their disorders that their partners were picking up on that neither realized until it was too late (not all of course).

However their failures were being told that it was who they are as people rather than symptoms of their mental health issue that likely had fixes, but were just untreated/unknown at the time. (Many realizing after they sought treatment that they're quality people but may have been suffering through something that distorted their perceptions temporarily thus causing rifts in relationships that may have not been there otherwise.)

[–]debatelord_1 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Autism is much more prevalent in incel/forever alone/black pill spaces.

[–]NakedNyx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, it's in abundance there, but there is A LOT of spill over from those communities, which is why a lot of the information is being twisted as well. It's still good information, it may just not be relevant to you.

[–]NakedNyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For those that have other non-Autism disorders: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/vuj9e2/how_many_of_you_that_got_caught_up_in_red_pill/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

[–]PapaSanjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why is there a self diagnosis.

[–]NakedNyx 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So the people who suffer from the same symptoms but probably cannot afford an official diagnoses feel included. Getting an official diagnoses isn't easy or cheap for many, especially in the US.

[–]PapaSanjay 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it’s expensive I agree, healthcare is shy in a lot of places. My personal opinion I think it’s a little fantastical but to each their own.

Not gonna dictate what others do with their minds and bodies

[–]NakedNyx 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We're just trying to get a clearer picture of their user base and make sure many of them have valid and healthy information regarding other possible relationship-ending issues, the issues they are facing obtaining dates and sex, or issues while the relationship is active, that are directly connected to their mental health issues rather than other things like "you're just being a beta pussy, bro" stuff. But yes, not everyone is affected by one. There are many that aren't being heard, are fed dangerous info (to either them or their partners), and it only makes things worse in many cases.

[–]PapaSanjay 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough

[+]freerossulbrich 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Look, I am a red piller or black piller. However, I am not defeatist. I also advocate transactional sex

For autistic people, transactional sex have one benefit. You don't know if she like you or not. But you know if she fucks you or not. You also know if the baby is yours because you can do paternity tests.

So you don't need to read minds, for example.

Typical black piller says that the only thing that matter with woman is your look, wealth, etc. Because you can't change that easily you just give up.

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To me, it is very normal that both men and women look for things that cannot be changed easily. We want the best genes for our children. By definition it is something that cannot be changed.

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So do your best to get rich. Straighten your teeth and so on.

The second part is how else I should persuade women to choose me.

Choose me. Not like me. The like me part is already decided by look, wealth, etc.

Most men offer love, marriage, etc.

Another scam.

Think about it. What is wrong with paying? If you're rich, paying is relatively cheap. It gives maximum incentive for money spent.

It's the fairest way.

Do you want children? How much money you can spend for those children?

In my country, getting this discussed from the beginning is can make many things predictable.

[–]NakedNyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I, too, am a supporter of transactional sex for other reasons too, but for the same reasons you list. Being Autistic makes relationships very difficult, but transactional or FWB can make it easier, however, some men want more than that. That's where I think some paid e-girlfriend/escorts thrive, because they can offer more than sex. Many actually pay for company, intimacy, and cuddling too, surprisingly. The bonus being for both when they neither want relationships, but want the benefits. But yeah, some only want to nut and go. But some want relationships, they want to pair bond, they want someone who chooses them and will fight through the bad moments, etc. We're all different.

Granted, I'm a woman, and though I can read, discuss, and study, I will never fully comprehend a man's struggles, and vice versa. But to me, there are A LOT more things I'm looking for when choosing a partner. Yes, looks matter to some, but a winning personality and humour can make me overlook that in many cases. Yes, money matters, but he doesn't need to make $100k+ to woo me because I'm fiscally conservative anyways. Yes, status matters to some, but I'm deeply introverted, so being known isn't as important to me unless it is for him and he would like me to play that role (I do understand that need to 'act' in those environments and do it for them).

To me, I absolutely love men who have good taste in music, can express their softer sides (bonus if they can write it), have held onto their humility but still are masculine, aren't afraid to cry when appropriate, can crack jokes and can tolerate my sarcasm and bluntness, etc. I don't think most should give up, but a black piller is going to have to go through that phase and decide what's best for them. Not all women care about the bullshit these coaches spew and constantly drill into the heads of these vulnerable men. To each their own, but this comment had almost nothing to do with the post, so hopefully my reply was helpful.

[+]freerossulbrich 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's what many sugar babies said. They fuck men that pays though.

Again, you may honestly feel like you're telling the truth. But I can't verify that.

Who knows women actually like men that pay them well. Who knows women prefer to be mistress but don't say it also fear it's illegal or can't get good rich smart men offering money.

[–]NakedNyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, be real. It's a rough economy and if I have something a good looking man with money wants to buy, then so be it. To each their own. If both parties are consenting and are aware of the arrangements, there is no harm in my mind. Not sure what this has to do with the post though.

[–]ChocolatChipLemonade 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The like me part is already decided by look, wealth, etc.

This is categorically untrue.. what type of women are you hanging around?! Also, transactional sex feels very different from authentic sex. Honestly, it’s just not worth it.

[+]freerossulbrich 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Marriage is not worth it. Basically I don't want anything with government in it as much as I can.

Transactional sex, by itself sucks. I don't really pay for sex.

However, it's the best way to build relationship with high IQ beautiful women

[–]ChocolatChipLemonade 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That’s not unusual either, I feel no obligation to get married. The problem is when a man wants his long-term partner to be traditional and submissive. If he prefers for her to care for everything in the home and she obliges, then he decides he wants to be with someone else, theres no safety net. She spent years caring for and supporting a man at his request, only for her to be pushed out with nothing. Plus the stress of always knowing in the back of her mind that could happen.
Of course, as long as every woman chooses a good man, he wouldn’t do that. I wouldn’t be submissive (a second time) to a red-piller for that reason.
High IQ beautiful women = transactional sex? Why?

[–]freerossulbrich 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I got most of my women from sugarbook. Out of everything I tried it worked best.

How else I meet women? I don't look 10/10. Not ugly but I am not Henry Carvill. How do I stand out for high IQ beautiful women on say, tinder? Wouldn't work out.

But I am rich. I can pay.

So I pay for video chat. For IQ tests. Tada....

Many scams. If I try to make women like me, for example, they will say they like generous guys. I just don't want to waste time and money on such women anymore. So I make it transactional. I've read that women like men they CANNOT scam anyway.

So the way the shit test works is women will try to scam us. If we have had successful experience with women, we just don't fall for it anymore. Making things transactional prevent us from getting scammed which makes a good impression.

Sure thing?

Nothing is sure. But if I can stop wasting money on women that won't give children and spend it on those adding values or give me children I am happy.

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