We are a 30 year old couple with a 2 year old boy who moved to the west from a 3rd world country. Need advice on how to raise him to be comfortable with his masculinity.

TheGayTransMan · 2022-07-17T01:07:51+00:00

Just tell him that men aren't bad, and don't discourage him if he wants to play with trucks or dolls. Personally, I'm gonna homeschool my children so misandry doesn't effect them.

UnashamedlyObtuse · 2022-07-16T22:02:32+00:00

I can help. Being a refugee to America at 15 and my self and a full grown man, perhaps I can help a little

Ok_Establishment1932 · 2022-07-16T23:52:40+00:00

Wich 3rd world country? This is important.

heeroena · 2022-07-17T06:52:17+00:00

Read Rollo tomassi's first "the rational male" and third book "The rational male positive masculinity"

ThrillaDaGuerilla · 2022-07-17T14:09:06+00:00

He's 2.....don't worry too much about it.

He will most likely emulate the behaviors he's sees on a constant basis . ...meaning , you and your husband will be living and breathing examples for him, and how you carry yourselves and four relationship will be his guide for for how to carry himself and how to be in a relationship

IceCorrect · 2022-07-17T12:31:08+00:00

If he would see good role models in home he should be fine. Wife should respect his husband, while men must treat wife with love and appreciate her feminity.

Henry_Blair · 2022-07-17T23:07:37+00:00

I have a 6 yo boy. I simply negate and correct all the misinformation he is exposed to, on TV, in kindergarten, in books. I tell him "they got confused!" and lough a little to make it seem like something funny - like slapstick or cartoons. For example on TV he stumbled across a show where everything is pink, and some 3-4 kids are enjoying baking all day long (the cookies then have personalities...). This is clearly a girls show. But they added a boy there, because of all the agendas, with long soft hair that looks more like a girl (in fact if not for pronouns you could mistake him for a minute for a girl). Everything is very obvious - "see, boys? you should be girly, it's nice, you like baking (a spiral hypnotizing them in the background), you have long soft hair, you like pink". So I told him it's a girls show, and "you can watch if you like it but it's really a girls show". He answered "no dad, there's a boy there!" (oh, how effective their manipulation on children is, how well thought-of is their intention to mess with a child's brain), so I said simply, "yes, but this boy didn't want to bake in a pink apron, he just wanted to be on tv, and the confused people on tv had put him there so he's there - he doesn't want to be there but to be in a show where he plays football, but they got confused and put him in the pink room" (which is true, you could see on the boy's face that he's faking everything, he just wanted to be famous on tv and the creeps said "well okay but you'll have to wear pink - mom, can I abuse my power to force your kid to wear pink by abusing his and your tremendous hope to be on tv? Yes? I have your consent to let me abuse my power on a child? Your child? Yes?").

In a book they made the boy save the girl on one occasion (knight/princess) and then the next day "they switch roles" and he "learns" to be "saved" by her (because feminist women run all day to save males, it's a great female instinct that feminist women have and that my boy should "learn" about - it won't make him fall off a cliff at all when realizing that men care about women, women care about women and he can drop dead for all feminists can care - noooo, I need to tell him through a book that "he should be the princess and the girl will be a knightess and will want to save him!" as this happens all the time to boys, that girls at all care what happens to them and run to "save" them instead of writing "kill all men" on twitter - prepare him for life, right). So again I corrected, I told him something funny happened to the person who wrote it and he (she, I don't care) got confused - kids LOVE adults getting "confused", makes them burst in laughter, and part of the joke when a kids tv star or the like is "confused" is correcting, this is something kids rehearse with you, you say "oh no! do you put your shoes on the head and hat on your feet???? Noooooo ha ha ha, you put the shoes on your feet and hat on the head.. (the kid always likes to say the correction with you) - I simply do the same with such books, "oh no! Does the princess save the knight and the knight is scared and crying??? Noooooo ha ha ha, the brave knight saves the princess AND SHE IS HAPPY" (it's great to add the actual correct world reality - the fact that yes, normally a person you save thanks you or happy, rather than filling a sexual harassment complaint for holding her hand as firemen and police started to find out they need to be afraid of, and now won't hold a woman that needs help).

And I regularly encourage the good normal male traits - so someone helped us tremendously (obviously a guy, for most women me and him are the color of air, and could drop dead without them noticing) - a bus driver saw that we're lost and dropped us where we needed and not in the stop and my kid noticed and asked why, and I said - "he saw that we're lost and wanted to help us, when you will grow up you will return the favor and help someone who needs help too", and he immediately said "yes! when I'll be big I will help someone!!"

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