I think that one of the most important Red Pills is this one right here. Guaranteed to stick in your craw and burn like a motherfucker. It never goes away. It keeps resurfacing and just cuts deeper and deeper.
For a dose of Maximum Strength, I recommend thinking in first person: "she will never love me." I have thought about making a post about this but I don't think there's quite enough to say about it. All I can say is that thinking in first person (me, me, me, I, I, I) has done me a lot of good in general.
But I for one don't even want love from girls. That part of me died a long time ago. It's just never been a high priority for me. I figured if I wanted love from a girl I'd go to my mom, and it was clear that she was really the only one that possibly could. I was an "oops" child but she was pretty good to me. She had her moments of abusive behavior and went completely crazy as she got older but she cooked, cleaned, washed my clothes, and even encouraged me to lift. It's all in the past because she's dead now. So there's no girly love left for me. Not a big deal. I consider myself one of the lucky ones to have even got a little.
What I want from girls is sex. And "she will never fuck me" doesn't work, because she will. All girls are total and complete sluts these days with no loyalty and very little shame. It's simply a matter of screening and game fundamentals.
The downside is that as girls get loose from all the cocks being thrown at them, they lose their ability to behave respectably. As a result "respect" is a word that has completely lost its meaning, both for Men and girls. It gets thrown around so much that it's lost value. It's become obligatory to respect people simply for being human, which is very dangerous. Nobody deserves automatic respect. In fact, the default stance should be to not respect them and see if they are worthy of it.
That's called "using judgment," or in modern terms, "judging." Somehow, this became a bad thing. But it's not.
"Only God can judge," you say? Yeah. I will be the judge of that.
I've struggled with this for a long time. As time went on, it finally dawned on me: this is one of her many ways of saying she will never respect me.
Yeah, no shit, right? I used to think it was just born out of childish maliciousness. Bitchiness. Because they can get away with it. Nope.
That was before I realized it's because she's utterly incapable of respecting me. Whether it comes from instinct or because this bullshit is encouraged starting when they are young and throughout their entire lives, girls just don't respect Men at all. And as they have gone from the "free love" of the 1960s to going feral in the 1990s to the unhinged degeneracy of Slut Culture today, they've respected Men less and less. It's probably a combination of both genetics and environment.
What's more, if we think about this rock we live on as "Mother Earth," all the unfairness we face as Males and all the misandry in the world can be explained by this. Nature is hostile. She doesn't love you. She doesn't want you here. She will make nothing easy for you. Especially not the things you really want or need.
It just fits, whether on a planetary scale, with all the girls in existence, or with individual girls.
Respect is predominantly a Male thing. Always has been. Respect is about accomplishment. And the accomplishments of girls have always been on very shaky ground. With the exception of female athletes and a smattering of other cases, their accomplishments have always been handed to them (or they steal credit). They don't even know the meaning of the word.
The other definition of respect is to be able to appreciate what someone or something is capable of. Girls are capable of great lies, harm, destruction, heartbreak, misery, suffering, betrayal, fraud, and evil, and it is growing day by day. Yet for us, we Men continue to be stripped of our masculinity, and this is another reason that they cannot respect us.
They say they want respect, but do they even know what they are talking about? No, they only want to be respected, they don't give any of their own. They don't even know how, because they have a tendency to "respect" everything by default, especially the most "positive" bullshit you can imagine (the things that make them feel good about themselves). This dilutes the value of any of the respect they could possibly give into worthlessness.
Do I want to be respected by girls? Of course. Yet I've always known that it was a losing battle. I have felt compelled to try to earn their respect regardless and I've always been disappointed. They only think about themselves, and their words and actions demonstrate it. There is no getting around it.
Trying to get respect from a girl is like trying to get a refund from a hooker.
Neither of you will get what you want, and you'll both walk away disappointed and insulted.
She might respect the fact that I do things for her or that I give her things, she might respect my career, money, status, accomplishments, power, and cocksmanship but she will never respect me. Not in the ways I think I should be respected. Not how I deserve to be respected.
She will do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with whoever she wants and fuck me if I stand in her way.
No matter what I do or say, no matter who I am or what I've done, she's going to ignore me, tease me, abuse me, badger me, belittle me, shame me, fuck with me, shit on me, talk shit about me, talk shit to me, shit test me, pick fights with me, and presumptuously accuse me of being a creep / loser / rapist / scumbag / shithead / douchebag / asshole / deadbeat / shitlord forever because she will NEVER respect me.
Not even when my dick is inside her.
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[–]Reflexiver3 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Once a man acknowledges that women cannot ever respect him, the man can start to use that knowledge for his own benefits.
One of the main problem with men seems to be that they do not just want sex from a woman but they also want to be respected (and these are only two of them, of course we can find more to talk about). And what happens when more and more constrains are in "AND" between them? The overlaying part becomes the objective to achieve and it is easily understandable that it will be more difficult to obtain.
I use women to only satisfy my corporal needs through the act of sex. Once I saw they will never "respect" me I started to use this fact to further improve my efficacy and efficiency to obtain my objective.
In prolonged periods of encounters, the probability that the women will act in disrespectful ways tend to one. When it happens, deep inside, as far as I obtain the sex, I don't care about being treated in these disrespectful ways (I mean I do feel "bad" but just don't care because I make sure the girl cannot damage me in any way; she is not involved in my private life; she does not know any detail about what I do, she does not know my key close persons, and I do not ever provide information about me that she could eventually use for her benefit and for my damaging. This is very important, you can be sure she will use anything to obtain what she wants. The game is played into making the other players' game more difficult for they to play, then you can start to maximize your own benefit because your own benefit is a function of the benefit of the other player), but then I started to use her disrespectful acts to provide uneasiness in the relationship.
Human beings wonderfully responds to [random] changes to their external situations (this is closely related to the creation of dopamine into the brain of a human). When you control the changes, you can control their responds (but you make sure the other cannot see that you are directly controlling the changes). Hence, the purpose is to provide sufficient changes during the relationship. You decide how much time you will spend with a certain girl, hence you decide if is an act that should be executed.
The purpose of the girl is to obtain my resources (time, money, status, semen for offspring, etc.., we know that). Whenever she acts in disrespectful ways I make sure to use them and amplify them to the point where I make her feel guilty for her behavior and of course I make sure that she understands that her behaviors made me angry and because of that she sees her objective (to obtain my resources) is getting far and far away from her. I create uneasiness in the relationship through the usage of her own attacks (disrespectful acts are only one kind of attack, you can really use anything, you can even create the attacks). This produces the needs in her to want to decrease this uneasiness, and what is the only way to do it? She must satisfy me with sex.
In this way I am also free to decide if I satisfy her own needs in sex. My only, and this is key, it is only ONE objective that I want with girls, is that I want to satisfy these human body needs because if I don't do it I can feel that I do not maximize my efficacy and efficiency in my important "life operations" as to say (with managing businesses would be one main part of them). I am also lazy in the way that I try to obtain what I want using the fewest energies and resources, and essentially I cannot care about satisfying her sexual needs (but I make sure that in the initial encounters the sex is the best, in the case I decide to prolong the number of encounters she must feel really good initially).
Sometimes I do things just to see what happens, how to others will act, just to satisfy my own curiosity and enjoyment.
The tl;dr would be: Using her own attacks to damage her own game. Combing it with your own attacks to her, you maximize the chances of your own victory in this little wonderful Game of Love.
[–]MisterDorimant1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
A bit hard to follow but good analysis. You understand the game.
This is what is preventing you from achieving maximum success. You shouldn't care about her needs or wants.
Sex is all about you, my man!
If she orgasms it should be to please you.
She'll never respect you, so don't do anything for her. Simply take everything she offers you (if it pleases you).
This isn't the Game of Love. Girls don't love Men. There's no winning that game. You're still a little blue around the edges. That's okay.
It isn't the Game of Sex, either. Winning at that game means getting laid. But nobody is going to care about your sex trophies except you. And they'll tarnish, become boring, and get boxed away in the garage eventually.
If I were to give it to name, I'd call it the Game of Life. And in life, ultimately there are no winners or losers. Nobody gets out of here alive.
In the Game of Life, it's not whether you win or lose, but how you play.
She'll never respect me even as I'm going about daily, mundane tasks.
[–]Reflexiver1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
We agree on this. I said that:
I decide if she will be satisfied by me, and the decision is driven only by my own benefits. If I decide to prolong the encounters, then I know what to do, and sometimes I experiment new things just out of curiosity.
That's the real problem with written text. That last sentence was pure sarcasm. If we were in flesh I would make sure you will perceived it (tonal voice, facial expressions and other things).
You see, sometimes a funny technique is to let people know that you semantically think X but you syntactically say Y. You know why? Because you let them know that you know but they cannot use your own words against you because your syntactical information are all honey and flowers.
More concisely (but you see, when you write concisely people can interpret in their own way, but you want full control over their own interpretations): it is funny to talk "dark" using "light" words.
I'd say it is good you thought that. I always like to be perceived a little sheep when I need to be perceived in that way.
And who decides the Rules?
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