Hey there,

let's get this out of the way first: No, this is NOT to sell any of my stuff. I just want to share my story because I finally found people with similar issues.

I came across the Red Pill about 4-ish years ago after sex-life in my marriage was on a down-low and without any passion. Back then I was like, "Bro she's just starfishing" when now I know, I wasn't actually seeking kinky sex. I was just seeking intimacy.

Either way, cue the Red Pill Journey, started with the Rational Male ofc.

  • Anger Phase
  • Sex-life getting better for a short period
  • Remain angry at women in general
  • Become an asshole
  • Her dark side shines in sex -> without any intimacy tho
  • "Positive" reaffirmation that it works
  • Join the War Room
  • Make EVERYTHING worse
  • Threaten divorce many times
  • She's fully closed-off emotionally, sex is back to starfishing again

This was about a year ago.

And now I am picking up the pieces of my marriage and my love to her again by being a FUCKING BETA as I learned, and it's working like a charm.

Somewhere within my soul I always wondered how it can be that 4 billion people are just emotionally impulsive bags of meat without any thinking, questioning the whole Red Pill idea. But sex-wise it worked, because I was dominant. This took away from intimacy, but I got my pornstyle sex, right? Probably also because she was trying to keep me since we had a child at that time.

Still, intimacy vanished. Love vanished.

I was seeking that old, cute, bubbly girl from the past, but I couldn't find her.

Now I know she put up all the shields and barriers to protect her beautiful heart.

Then I came across Mark Manson's book "Models" and everything made sense.

It wasn't her being a dumb hypergamous birch. It was me being an incompetent fool. I covered my insecurities with being an ass. I did SHUT OUT my love to her because I learned it's "beta" and in turn, she shut out her love.

I also used subliminal messaging to solve my issues, but after MONTHS of TOUGH SHIT, dealing with my own insecurities, issues, being BRUTALLY HONEST with her what I want, what I went through, and how I was who I was, NOW our marriage is better than ever.

Even applied it in my coaching practice to get a bigger sample size, and SURPRISE, when the guys told their wives they fell for lies, and all they wanted was more intimacy, and are now on a CONQUEST to get their shit together, finally their wives are all up for "it" again. With passion, and love.

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So anyway, no new insights for you guys I suppose, but I made it my mission now to spread this knowledge across all my (social) media channels and books, so more men can wake up to the reality of what's going on there.

Power games, rooted in insecurity. Because this is never addressed this guys kill their personal growth and are in denial of it!

That's how I sum up the Red Pill.

Whoever made this very subreddit, THANK YOU!

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See you around,
Alexander