“A key to a healthy relationship; Always say YES” Do you agree with this notion or find it super archaic? All of the comments seem to agree with the idea of always saying yes

wtknight · 2022-08-19T00:37:37+00:00

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Vtridolla · 2022-08-19T00:20:11+00:00

Fuck no. Consent is still needed even if you’ve been married 55 years. No means no. Don’t let weirdos on the internet tell you to always tell your partner yes.

JMoon33 · 2022-08-19T00:23:11+00:00

Always say yes sexually

I completely disagree. Sex is fun when both people are enjoying themselves, so it's important to communicate what you like and dislike.

My girlfriend and I have an incredible sex life because we know how to drive eachothers crazy. This came with good honest communication.

Of course, if there's something your partner is into and you're on the fence about, it can be good to make an effort to say yes and try it, but always be honest, it's important and it'll make for a better sex life. :) ♡

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attendquoi · 2022-08-19T00:20:26+00:00

I cannot watch the video where I'm at right now, but do they mean this in the same way improvers should always say yes?

If so, yeah I pretty much agree with that.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-19T00:25:07+00:00

Say yes to sex? (I’m not gonna watch that whole video so just give me the high level).

heartheartdoki96 · 2022-08-19T00:31:43+00:00

if you're willing to have sex with your partner when they are not enthusiastic and are just agreeing to agree, you're a freak. I don't care what they say, consent needs to be enthusiastic

I'd counter argue with a better solution: if you are not sexually compatible, discuss it and make it work or end it.

I think this is a stupid argument to frame around men like those women were doing. I'm a woman with a high sex drive. Most men can't perform 3-4x in a row. I don't cheat lol

You should never withhold affection to punish a partner

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-08-19T00:32:10+00:00

No. The key to a healthy relationship is communication. Communication is not always saying yes but sometimes also saying no in a language your partner can respect.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-08-19T00:39:18+00:00

Always say YES

One girl makes a good point; it should be a conversation. Prior to getting married, my partner and had this conversation. I was upfront with my expectations. She was with hers. We’ve encountered adversity over the last eight years. Understandably mostly due to childbirth. Together however, we worked through it.

So whilst saying “yes” is important; it’s not pivotal. I often repeat this, but good communication is pivotal. That’s the key to longevity.

Godspeed and good luck!

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