This is something that I thought would be nice to share and show that there's hope for us men when it comes down to the court system. I have also been victim to the system, but there are financials measures you can take as well as creating other entities such as a LLC, trust funds etc... when trying to protect your finances (If it applies). This video also shares info about a 20 year experienced family law attorney on YouTube who does Q & A sessions which may be able to save you some money before you hire an attorney.

Just thought I'd make this and share since I know first hand how stressful the process is and what happens. Hope this helps someone out there on getting started!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0lwRqPS2pk