The Reason Why I was never fully Red-pilled

SweelFor- · 2022-10-06T16:36:19+00:00

I think you are a smart person. You learned what statistics are, and faced with a problem, you remembered to apply statistics to that problem to figure out what's wrong. That is something that people who fall into RP are not capable of doing.

fathergoose77 · 2022-10-06T19:42:58+00:00

You should be very proud of this. You didn’t let your emotions override your logic, common sense, and critical thinking skills, something RP ideology relies on.

Be proud of this and be proud of your intellect. Blaming someone else for our problems may feel better in the short term, but it’s just not productive and is harmful to your self-growth and your own success in life.

rhymeswithgarlic · 2022-10-06T15:44:45+00:00

The dating landscape is bleak and barren, to be sure. Online dating is like a museum of broken souls. I lost count of the women who I interacted with and within minutes was saying to myself, "Yup, I can see why she's single."

However, even in the desert there's a flower or two. I hit the jackpot with my fiance. There was some luck involved; I saw her profile and messaged her just a couple of days after she joined the site. She hadn't dated for several years and had done a lot of work on herself, and it paid off. Really low notch count. And yes, that's a valid concept for both men and women; if you've had a new partner every six months or every year, you've likely got some issues that you haven't worked through and you're using the novelty and excitement of new relationships to distract yourself from them and avoid working on yourself. Or you're just really bad at relationships. Or both. That used to be me, so I know whereof I speak.

All of which is to say, I'm agreeing with you that they're not all like that. All women are not manipulative, exploitative train wrecks. I came to this same conclusion and like you, I couldn't push the "Red pedal" all the way to the floor.

TRP is about giving up. It's built around claiming that the other team isn't playing fair, and using that as an excuse to cheat and play dirty. Or to take your bat and glove and go home. Fortunately, I'm not a cheater or a quitter.

Naus1987 · 2022-10-06T22:45:45+00:00

I never became fully red pilled, because I learned what ethics were early in life, lol. So whenever I hear other red pill people talk about behaving unethical, I just don't have time for that bullshit, lol.

I can listen to them give examples of how (some) women do bad things, and I can agree with that. Men do bad things. People in general do bad things.

but because I have an ethical background, I won't let other people's bad actions turn me into an unethical monster. Just because some women are evil doesn't mean I have to be evil. And that's the problem with a lot of red pill. They try to justify evil behaviors because some women do evil stuff.

nofaploveit · 2022-10-07T16:00:43+00:00

Depends on age. Not all women are the same

Responsible_Kick_811 · 2022-10-07T22:13:44+00:00

All Women Are Like That, or AWALT, is a belief that maybe 1% of red-pilled men hold in the literal sense, at least with respect to women leaving you when the right opportunity arises. It's not an assertion of absolute fact, it's a mantra used to remind men that most women are "like that."

Both men and women tend behave irrationally when they form a strong emotional attachment in a relationship. They ignore red flags that everyone else can see clear as day.

So, the mantra "All Women Are Like That" is less of a statement about "all women" than it is a reminder to men: "you are not special, you are not the exception, you are not invincible."

Title	The Reason Why I was never fully Red-pilled
Author	Danny-Ost
Upvotes	31
Comments	10
Date	October 6, 2022 2:50 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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