We all have heard of those situations where a boyfriend is liking other girls bikini pictures, this upsets the girlfriend, and in response, she wants to post her own bikini pictures. One common justification I hear for this is the girl saying “oh you like looking at those pictures, let me post some of my own for you to look at then”.

But this response to the man’s actions doesn’t seem like a valid one to me. It’s not that the man likes the PICTURE. He likes what he SEES in the picture. Shouldn’t the valid response be for the girl to show out in a sexy outfit in front of her man, because clearly the man likes it? Not for her to do this and post a picture of it for everyone to see (including her man technically)?