Girl wants to wait before we have sex

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-12-22T18:04:36+00:00

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obviousredflag · 2022-12-22T18:02:52+00:00

Sexual abuse in her past.

trippingfingers · 2022-12-22T18:04:19+00:00

You're asking internet strangers to guess at the most intimate details of a person's inner thoughts? Just communicate with her and you'll find out.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-12-22T18:04:23+00:00

She's not comfortable having sex with you yet. Some people take longer to be comfortable with it than others, it took me a lot longer than two months. If you're okay with that, you'll just have to wait. Otherwise you can leave.

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-12-22T18:04:32+00:00

When you get drunk your inhibition lowers and you can’t think upon consequences. When sober the prefrontal cortex makes us don’t act upon impulses, be able to redirect them or actually don’t feel them in the same way. Getting horny sober might mean consciously being able to turn that off. Not so with alcohol. At least you got your the proof that her waiting isn’t ”lacking attraction”. She is attracted to you and would have slept with you were she a more impulsive person. But she wants to feel comfortable first, so she wants to wait: easy peasy.

RegionalPolice · 2022-12-22T18:05:18+00:00

You're probably not getting her in the mood in your dates, and alcohol is a social lubricant which removes inhibition and makes her more susceptible to feeling like she's in the mood.

neetykeeno · 2022-12-22T18:06:43+00:00

The deal is why the fuck you asking us why when you haven't asked her why yet?

Title	Girl wants to wait before we have sex
Author	Verrati873
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	December 22, 2022 6:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zssh8c/girl_wants_to_wait_before_we_have_sex/
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