Tinder game : what do I say

BigMattyMcDaddy · 2017-09-27T21:14:12+00:00

Stop looking for data about her and start trying to stand out and be funny. Once you get her to lol a little talk about a bar/cafe/food place you want to try and tell her to come along. Get her number and proceed with not acting like a robot on the date.

ScottDurden · 2017-09-27T21:20:49+00:00

First, don't ask questions about her (girls will interpret this as neediness & investment). Instead make statements.

Don't let their bio fool you every girl on Tinder is looking to suck Chad's dick. Ergo, don't try & get to know her.

Match -> Text -> Logistics -> Fuck her

(Text is optional you could go straight to logistics)

Pork_Sword3 · 2017-09-28T00:43:58+00:00

Matched with a girl and her bio said “the weirder you are the more chances I will like you”

The conversation went like this:

Me: Shit, I’m not ready for someone to fall in love with me yet.

Her: Yes you are and plus it’s too late

Me: Damnnn. So what now! I offer you out on a date and sweep you off your feet?

Her: I think so....

Me: Well, nothings better than striking while the irons hot, let’s grab a coffee sometime this week, how’s tomorrow at 6.30pm sound?

Her: Yes! I love this! & I think you should teach guys how to tinder.

And the rest is history.

I look at their bio first and choose something in there that I can use to open with and just turn it into something witty/funny/sexual. If no bio, look at their employment if it’s anything interesting or then go for anything you can use from her pictures.

Try to get a date as quickly as you can, 6 message rule works well. It’s a good filter to sift out the ones who will waste your time. Getting a number is pretty optional, I only get it to really seal the deal so I can text them a couple hours before the date to confirm, this usually lowers the number of flakers in my experience.

Idgaf attitude and be funny is the best way to go. The rest of it is your SMV in your pictures. As long as you have good SMV, getting a date shouldn’t be a problem provided you avoid showing neediness behavior.

specialCupcake · 2017-09-27T22:32:37+00:00

Convo1 should be: Hey, let's go out for a beer.

That's always my opener. Your conversations reek of autism.

1.Too much complements 2.0 vibe 3.autistic replies "sounds high maintenance"...

KISS(Keep it simple stupid).

Whisper · 2017-09-27T23:03:47+00:00

20-questions-about-you game is weak as fuck.

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-27T20:15:03+00:00

Conversations on the app should be "how are you" and what's your number. This "getting to know each other" isn't very effective, you'll take too long talking to a chick and it doesn't add a lot to your chances of getting the date.

Try "well, I'll need your number because talking through here is annoying" and texting, "I'll need to know if you like bars better than clubs". Then set the date.

dammit_redskins · 2017-09-28T04:30:06+00:00

Don’t use logic and boring conversation. She doesn’t want a boring guy that’s just going to interview her. Logic will never make her drop them panties. You have no game. With practice you’ll get better. But go read up on game, search for it in TRP.

Game is essentially a combination of teasing her, outcome independence, DGAF attitude, abundance mentality, no emotional investment, and treating her like a silly irrational child. Work on having a devil-may-care attitude and be audacious. You’d be surprised just how bold you can be and not only not have it backfire, but increase her attraction greatly. Look up shit tests and agree and amplify. Never apologize.

Kommanderdude · 2017-09-27T21:31:52+00:00

Take this to r/tinder.

Title	Tinder game : what do I say
Author	Whykremlin
Upvotes	2
Comments	29
Date	September 27, 2017 8:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/72uxzd/tinder_game_what_do_i_say/
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