How to act around girl who friendzoned me?

Work_In_Progress92 · 2017-09-28T02:33:51+00:00

Don't reach out to her and don't be liking her shit on social media either. Let her reach out to you and don't give her attention.

HaywoodJablome69 · 2017-09-28T02:46:36+00:00

Why do you want her as a friend? That's what dudes are for.

The only girls you should have as friends are the ones you don't want to fuck (fatties, way older)

llIllllIllllIlllIlll · 2017-09-28T06:48:54+00:00

Cut all contact. There are zero benefits to remaining her friend.

shitpommesfrites · 2017-09-28T07:12:19+00:00

Fuck one of her closest friends.

equipmentpool · 2017-09-28T04:40:17+00:00

NEXT.

oldslut · 2017-09-28T09:39:10+00:00

sometimes i feel like im a beta orbiter.

you are

How do i do this?

you soft next her and go about your life. and don't go running back declaring your love when she throws you a little attention, upon seeing that you've fallen out of her orbit

go get some plates and work on you

Zweihander747 · 2017-09-28T09:34:57+00:00

Start actively showing interest in other women, flirting with them etc, even talk to girl who fz'd u about other chicks you fancy and what she thinks of them

I did this to girl who fz'd me and at first she thought it was defence mechanism against her fz'ng me, but i just made like i didnt even care abt her rejection, and when she kept seeing me with other girls and genuinely having fun with them and too busy to give her any attention or validation any more, it mindfucked her, and i kid you not she was into me all of a sudden

Lol I remember this now, and chuckle at it actually being quite pathetic how impressionable women can be

cesafacinaicesafaci · 2017-09-28T09:38:28+00:00

Don't be around her anymore. You want to keep her as a friend because you are an orbiter.

kyalord · 2017-09-28T10:13:55+00:00

Classic one-itis. Remedy: spin more plates i.e. flirt with other girls. This girl knows you have no other options that's why she's flaking. You have no idea how much value you add to yourself when a girl knows you have options other than her

[deleted] · 2017-09-28T10:43:39+00:00

You don't need women as friends.

FlyingSexistPig · 2017-09-28T13:59:44+00:00

"I still want to be her friend"

You are her beta orbiter. That's your job, and you like it, apparently.

GuestsGetGreens · 2017-09-28T03:57:19+00:00

Take a break from her. Give her space. Let her initiate the next hang out. Remain alpha during interaction. Giving space will also give you time to decide if you really are her beta orbiter or, if you can remain friends with this woman

CocoaPill · 2017-09-28T08:44:39+00:00

Ignore. Don't block her from your social media but don't like absolutely anything she posts.

You must be absolutely clear with yourself about what you want from this girl. Do you want to fuck her or do you her to be your friend?

Once you decide that then you plan your behaviour.

AlphaGrad · 2017-09-28T09:31:42+00:00

You just cannot be friends with a female.

TehJimmyy · 2017-09-28T11:41:33+00:00

Don't game girls in your class.

Title	How to act around girl who friendzoned me?
Author	Patoocare
Upvotes	25
Comments	31
Date	September 28, 2017 2:24 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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