How to get over lack of motivation to game girls?

TacoMedic · 2017-09-30T15:04:38+00:00

I’m sure this will be an unpopular opinion, but don’t try. Girls are so much fucking work half-the-time anyway, why would you want to make yourself have to deal with it. TRP is just a guide on how to be a man, it just so happens to also be conducive to getting laid.

Rather than trying to get some motivation to fuck. Use your free time/lack of motivation to better yourself. Hit the gym harder than you ever have before, learn a new language, take a college course, etc. All this shit will drive your appeal up so that when you do want to get laid, it’s that much easier.

[deleted] · 2017-09-30T15:35:31+00:00

You realise it's that attitude that makes gaming girls really fucking easy, right? You have a lack of invested interest in the outcome with a girl, allowing you to say/do whatever the fuck you want. Now, that can make you crash and burn when you say something "wrong" but it can also make you rise above the rest.

Women can smell desperation a mile away. The guy who isn't "hungry" becomes attractive. You obviously have something going on and women are nosy little fucks, they'll wanna know what makes you so different. Just don't walk around sour faced etc, be "civil" and plating will be a walk in the park

GunnarX · 2017-09-30T16:43:01+00:00

Stop fapping to porn.

redpill_aware · 2017-09-30T20:42:04+00:00

I've discovered that a lot of reason why we find the redpill is because we've lost our way as men. That lack of motivation for women isn't in your masculine nature. But you have forgotten your true masculine self. TRP teaches some aspects of a masculine nature but often it's screwed up beta men who use it as analytical strategy to get women.

A woman is not just a plate or a strategy. She's more than that. But we call her that because we've lost our masculine edge and need to disassociate her from what she is in order to be "okay" with her rejection when we fail to be masculine enough to pass a shit test or her hypergamous nature. She's just a plate and move on, that's the advice.

The truth is, after discovering it for myself. Is we as a generation were told male sexuality and strength is bad. We believed it, because women told us that, society told us that, media told us that. we needed to become more feminine.

We did. We lost ourselves in the process. Generations of us. Some men, never listened and some were just oblivious to the feminist agenda. They are the ones who women flock to. The ones who listened lost them.

You have to do learn how to embrace your masculinity again. Not just surface shit. Not just lifting, dressing well, creating a business. But embracing your true male sexual self and not apologizing for your sexual nature that nature gave you.

You think women have the power and in some respects they do. But they still want cock from a fully self accepting masculine unapologetic penetrative energetic male, who fucking gets it.

Good luck, fuck well.

walawalawa · 2017-10-01T02:29:18+00:00

This is all based on a fear of rejection. It seems to "trigger" something deeper in you that holds you back.

Set goals for yourself: I will talk to 5 new girls today--can be any 5 girls you meet.

[deleted] · 2017-09-30T15:36:03+00:00

It will come back with time.

Use this opportunity to work on your career or your career skills.

If you're really interested in speeding up the process, I found that training BJJ was fun, and both physically and mentally exhausting. It helped me keep my mind off my ex, and introduced me to new friends who are fucking badasses. It's just a whole different experience than lifting where people usually just zone out or listen to music but are in their own bubble. It's more social, more stimulating, and more exhausting.

About eight weeks after I started training, I found myself wanting women, and being aroused again by the thought of being with one. Not "my ex", but WOMEN. Their smell mostly, but their softness and their presence too.

beachbbqlover · 2017-09-30T15:35:41+00:00

From my experience, it shouldn't be work. Ask someone if they want to come climbing, sailing, or volunteering for Habitat for Humanity or the local soup kitchen. They either say yes or no, but you have to be doing those kinds of things in the first place.

Original_Username7 · 2017-09-30T18:38:01+00:00

Ha, totally sympathize man. You ever consider that the lack of motivation is from the fact that in today's day-and-age, gaming/maintaining a woman just isn't worth it, that you can be a lot happier MGTOW if you just allow yourself to be?

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2017-10-01T01:47:54+00:00

It's just fear and inexperience that brings on your reluctance.

Rian_Stone · 2017-10-01T02:05:55+00:00

Stop jerking off so Much, you'll get it back

TooMuchToDoo · 2017-10-01T02:40:38+00:00

Stop jerking off. You'll be amazed at how much motivation you'll gain.

criveros · 2017-09-30T20:24:54+00:00

Maybe you are a closeted gay?

Title	How to get over lack of motivation to game girls?
Author	AidAndPie
Upvotes	14
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Date	September 30, 2017 2:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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