I'm drunk. I have a very serious question. I've seen lots of girls say that "a bigger dick always feels better" and as an average guy it makes me want to kill myself. I'm perfectly average, but my gf has been with one guy before me (she only had one ex, and she said the sex was terrible) but she said her ex was a little big bigger than me. (It hurts so fucking much) (she realized her mistake fast and apologized for mentioning it, I really don't blame her for this, there is barely a difference) Based on my research I am TERRIFIED I won't be able to please her even though she's way more mentally attracted to me and I can make her cum multiple times with just my words/mind alone. (I should mention we are long distance right now but I'm planning to visit/fuck her soon.) Am I being crazy? I see lots of girls on reddit say that "of course bigger than average dicks feel better" and it crushes my soul. I'm extremely average 5.5 long and 4.5 girth and I feel so fucking bad about it.

What kills me is the girls who say that "bigger always feels better but x" I don't care about the but x. Luckily my girlfriend seems to have a small/tight pussy and actually is hurt by above average. But I can't help but feel so fucking bad that I'm not above average. It's not a good feeling. I don't think girls get this. It doesn't help that male feelings are dismissed and called stupid. It's like what I feel doesn't matter. Even though I try so hard to be considerate and loving torwards my gf. I'd never try to make her feel bad. But apparently my feelings don't matter at all : ( I'm so fucking sad about it.

Girls vary in their pussy size and honestly lots of girls are just big/loose but they are never judged for it. Only men are called bad for being "average" and the fucked part is that average is called small these days. Seriously what gives.

TL:DR- Is bigger than average really so fucking special? I always went all out to please my partners. But some women make it seem like being bigger is all that matters. It hurts me so much. Like I shouldn't even try. I need perspective on this. Should I just give up? Am I good enough? I am so sad. I hate feeling this way.