Should I Get Tinder?

ScottDurden · 2017-10-10T04:50:47+00:00

Honestly if you're in the top 20% of SMV & have an interesting life (in pictures) you should be able to summon girls on command.

If anything it really helps with abundance mentality.

Bkblul · 2017-10-10T10:48:27+00:00

I probably wouldnt bother. In your case you have no problem approaching in real life. Maybe hang around uni at different locations or times?

If you goto tinder expecting more attractive women, you'll have a bad time. These women will have the pick of the bunch and I found most are attention whores (add me on Instagram!).

I had a decent experience on tinder after finding my niche. Had a thing for country girls, down to earth and not boring as fuck. They'd show up in town not knowing anyone and next thing you know they're at my place enjoying a drink.

isthatsuperman · 2017-10-10T15:47:32+00:00

Tinder is like whey protein. If you've got a healthy diet you don't necessarily need it, but it does make the process easier. Its a supplement, treat it as such. If you can game girls IRL you can game girls on tinder and maybe add an extra plate to rotation once or twice a month without having to do jack shit.

GreenPiller · 2017-10-10T03:40:28+00:00

Unless you are a super Chad I wouldn't even bother. I couldn't get laid on Tinder even if my life depended on it. Not one single match and I used it for 2 months. Yet in person, women approach me. Maybe I'm not photogenic or my camera is crap.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-10-10T06:38:54+00:00

If you're worried that it will stop you approaching, then resolve to make sure you continue approaching. Sounds to me like you want discipline.

As for the "not too many girls in my university attractive" thing. They aren't miraculously better looking outside your uni. Online dating, in particular, they are just heavily curated photos designed to mislead you into thinking they're more attractive. At least in person, you can see them in real light.

idmfk · 2017-10-10T07:05:55+00:00

Get it and don’t give up. Going to have to approach it from a sleazy sales angel. The telemarketer that doesn’t give up.

I’ve gotten laid on Tinder several. I’d say once for every 300 matches. You’ve got to be patient and original. A lot of the girls on there are fucking horrid though.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-10-10T07:52:15+00:00

Go for it but unless you're in the top 20% you won't get many matches. Don't get your hopes up as most of the women are just on Tinder for attention.

Terdmuffin · 2017-10-10T15:01:31+00:00

Just get it. In the time it took you to make this thread you could have already downloaded it and set up a profile. Just get it and start swiping.

imdar3ald3al · 2017-10-10T16:08:03+00:00

I wouldn't bother participating in validating women anymore than they already get. A 6/10 gets about 200-300 matches a month and believes she's an 8.

Keep approaching because it contrasts with tinder hookup culture and makes you look that much better and confident.

gainerhorse · 2017-10-10T21:33:59+00:00

If you do choose to go on Tinder make sure that:

1) You're 10% bodyfat with fitting, stylish clothes and a good haircut.
2) You have quality pictures. Find a photographer and get a bunch of pictures taken. Pictures you can also use for professional settings. Worth the money.
3) Read the guide on the main sub about Tinder (it's about 2 years old now I think)

Title	Should I Get Tinder?
Author	Polartec2390
Upvotes	5
Comments	22
Date	October 10, 2017 3:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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