Ok, so basically at the end of 2nd date,we made out and she did not want to come back to my place. I did not text her for 4 days, and contacted her again to set up a 3rd date, to which she said was busy. I decided to cut the chase, and sent her a "I had fun meeting you, hope you find someone what you are looking for. Take care." To which she replied, "I was legitimately busy and can go out another night, and she moves a little slower cause of her busy life." For some reason, she is now initiating the conversation herself, with a lot of smileys and also says she takes time to emotionally connect and timid etc etc. She has agreed to go out on a 3rd date. Now, how do i conduct myself in the 3rd date. Should i just keep the conversation going and physically escalate or keep her "move things slower" in mind and don't escalate physically at all? Do i invite her to my place again at the end of the date or just play it cool and just have fun on the date and demonstrate no neediness from my side?

Update: Learnt, she was in an accident this summer and had lost her memory for 2 months due to concussion, met with another freak accident while at work, "a 60 pound object fell on her head", says she is now almost recovered fully and she remembers fine now. I don't know whether to believe it or not, but in any case I will judge her on her Actions and not words. Cheers.