Similar thing has happened to me with multiple girls. I go on a date, it goes really well and head back to their place. Escalation continues and I find myself being invited to stay overe. It gets ver sexual very fast.

As it ramps up they stop me and say something like 'you are too irresistible', I smile and continue. Then they stop me again and say I barely know you, tell me about yourself. Not really sure what to do here since we have been talking for a few hours already. Normally I say something dumb and continue escalating.

Then they say they don't want a ONS, and I say me neither I don't enjoy that sort of thing. And continue escalating g but they stop me again and say a final NO.

Then they ask me to stay for cuddles so I stay for a bit, but can never fall asleep so I bounce. Then they send me a text a long the lines of 'I knew you just wanted sex, that's why I didn't sleep with you, bye.'

Where have I been fucking up?