It's like you're doing heroin, and you perceive people always trying to take your heroin away from you, criticizing how much of it you're doing, telling you you're going to regret later how much you did, etc.

Difference is there's literally no downside.

Women living in western democracies well and truly can have their cake and eat it too, dopamine trillionaires, more pleasurable feelings in terms of frequency and duration than any organic life that has ever existed at any time on the planet

Or let's put it another way, if not women living in current western democracies, which group of people or organic beings would have your vote for more pleasurable feelings in terms of frequency and duration than any organic life that has ever existed at any time on the planet?

Because frankly, that's the most important thing. All this stuff about sacrifice and discipline and endurance and meaning blah blah blah, if they had a perfect drug without comedowns and tolerance and bodily deterioration, who isn't jumping on that soma ASAP other than some self flagellating neurotics?