So I’m at this girls place and we are cuddling in her bed while watching Netflix. I’m cuddling with her and kino is obviously escalated to be max. I’m grabbing her butt and caressing her boobs. Halfway through the movie I go in for the kiss and she rejects it saying “No, don’t make me kick you out”. I say “ Why, it’s just for fun”. I leave it as is and get back to watching the movie and still cuddling as usual.

Later the conversation steers to sex and she goes oh. I thought you were a Virgin. That’s why I didn’t let you kiss me, I didn’t want to develop some long distance kind of relationship. I respond with amused mastery and go like I have more lays than you. What are you talking about?

We are both freshman at neighboring unis. How could I have escalated to sex and handled this better ?

*Edit Cleared up the poking boob bit.