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Middle school teacher, 26, sent nudes, had sex with teen boy student

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March 1, 2018

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Title	Middle school teacher, 26, sent nudes, had sex with teen boy student
Author	wiseprogressivethink
Upvotes	73
Comments	36
Date	March 1, 2018 2:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/81211r/middle_school_teacher_26_sent_nudes_had_sex_with/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/middle-school-teacher-26-sent-nudes-had-sex-with.1179212 https://theredarchive.com/post/1179212

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Hey man so I've been thinking about a reply for a bit because if I am completely honest about 4 years ago I was in a very similar situation as you are right now.

Wow this got long I will just do a TL:DR

TL;DR: I was in a completely self destructive spiral for a long time and thought any sort of human contact would spare me my misery for a moment. It didn't. I completely wrecked my body for 4 years and it took hard work and leaning on my friends and family to recover but I finally did it and so can you.

So a little background; I had broken my back in college playing football so I was in constant pain and hooked on pain meds, I was also self medicating with alcohol and weed. First my grades plummeted, I went from a respectable 3.4 GPA to a sub 2 in the space of a semester. I basically stopped going to class, stopped going to the cafeteria to eat, stopped spending time with my friends, and quit spending time with my then fiance. The only things I did was swallow meds, got drunk, got high, and laid in my bed eating junkfood and watching reruns on TV.

So I mean I was already in a pretty bad place but I hadn't even hit rock bottom yet. Know how I said I was ignoring my fiance? Well she got sick of it and cheated on me with some guy in her home town over summer break. I didn't find out until we got back on campus for fall semester and another surprise when I got back to school for fall is that I was on academic probation and was close to losing all of my scholarships.

I was incredibly fortunate to have some really good friends and an amazing family who really cared to get me back on a path to healing after about a year of trying to destroy myself. It didn't happen overnight but I looked in the mirror and I didn't recognize myself. I was easily 350lbs, after being 305 and playing football a year before. My hair and beard were disgusting and unkempt and I couldn't remember the last time I took a shower or washed clothes or sheets. I resisted the change at first, hard. I was determined to end myself and throw my life away. I was able to stop taking the pills but was still drinking and smoking a lot. I started fucking anything I could get my dick in to fix the loneliness but it didn't help.

I was able to pull myself together enough to graduate from college and start looking for work. I found some mediocre office job in a featureless cubicle. It was pure torture. I was still drinking and smoking a lot but much less than I had in college. I was still also trawling for any pussy I could find. I went from job to job, even found a job doing what I wanted to do and I fucked it up.

So fast forward to 2016 after bouncing around 4 states and probably twice that many jobs. I take a job back in my home state, granted about as far away from 'home' as I could get. It was such a wakeup call for me. I looked in the mirror one day and I literally said "Holy fuck." I didn't even recognize myself. I'd grown this incredibly disgusting beard and my hair was about 15 inches long in the biggest jew fro I had ever seen. I also noticed that I was fucking huge. 425lb to be exact. I mean I had always been a big guy but what most people would call a "Fatlete" A big person who can still run and you know move and all that. That day I called my doctor and got an appointment for a checkup. I had given myself diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, and gout. I left the Dr.s office and went to a barber shop. I had my head shaved and all the mess taken off my face, to this day the best $45 I've ever spent. It was a shock the next day when I showed up at work and I got a lot of comments on it.

I threw out all the weed that I had stashed and the booze, cleaned out the fridge and all the junk food, cleaned my house that had turned into a complete disaster, and bought a mirror and scale for my house. The next most important thing I did is I picked up my phone and called my friend Dave. Dave an I hadn't talked in a few months, maybe a year. He was one of my best friends in college and I told him what was going on and asked him to just check on me occasionally and make sure I wasn't slipping.

I won't lie to you there were days where it was so hard to get out of bed, where it was hard to take all the dozens of medications, where it was hard to eat right, where it was hard to move my fat ass. I knew though that I was going to die at 27 if I didn't do something. So I kept doing it. This was October of 2016 I was alone, fat, and dying. Today is March 1, 2018. I'm still fat, though much less so at 323, but I am taking half the amount of medication that I was taking previously, my diabetes, blood pressure, and cholesterol are all under control, and I've got the most amazing woman in my life as well as a really solid group of friends and my family. Honestly I couldn't ask for anything else in life right now; well I would like a full time job but that's neither here, nor there.

All I'm saying is that despite what you may think there is definitely someone out there, probably multiple people, who cares about you and wants you to be happy and hates to see that you're depressed. Hell even if it is just me, random guy on the internet, I really do want you to feel better and live the life that will make you happy. If you need to reach out to me then so be it I will be here. You just need to know that your life is too valuable to feel the way that you do.

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Maybe, or maybe she's just surrounded by youthful bodies all day every day. I mean, she went through high school (lots of youth), went through college (lots of youth) and went back to high school (lots of youth). It wouldn't surprise me if she didn't snag a guy her own age if she never really spent much time around guys her own age. She probably spent a good chunk of college on her back (this is all hyperbole and I have no evidence...but with how attractive she looks, she definitely was swimming in male attention), and now she's back amongst perpetually young males practically drooling over her. Now she has both sexual AND actual power over these males. Since she never really matured and never had to really face the real world, she can't help herself.

That's my armchair, completely bullshit, non-professional diagnosis of a lot of these women who are raping these kids.

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