How I used the Dark Triad traits to become a player as an ugly balding guy before discovering TRP.

WOLFY-T · 2019-03-06T22:49:45+00:00

What's the name of this movie?

2019-03-07T02:23:17+00:00

I believe him, because I went through a "turn the other cheek phase," where I would literally martyr myself and be the group whipping boy. Then one day, I snapped and did the exact opposite. I started punching back, verbally I mean. And I would keep punching. I would say nasty, cruel things. I would bully. I would play mind games.

Suddenly I attracted a circle of dudes who viewed me as a leader. I was a "cool" dude. Next thing I know, I go from pariah, to having a crew. Pretty soon my crew acts as much surrogates. My social status improved.

I also experimented with other things like taking risks, and projecting a "dangerous" persona, where I could not be relied on to be "safe," meaning, I might just snap and violently attack you if pushed too much. Also, smoking and drugs.

And of course, the women suddenly became more interested in me.

But really, it was disgusting to me, that I was rewarded, socially, for being an asshole.

Later on, I went back the other way.

As the OP said, I alienated a lot of my male friends. And they alienated me.

Years later, I sort of understand the why of it all.

It's not being "evil," exactly, it's displaying dominance, assertiveness, and power. Women are turned on by it because they think that it means you are a contender of some sort. Rather than the typical, passive, institutionalized male, you are pushing back against people, the system, society. You are something different. Now, a lot of guys who do this, wind up in jail, or the military. They go too far. They see the dynamic and keep pushing to new extremes, and they build up some wealth and / or power, but then the people with the REAL power squash them like bugs. The drug dealers wind up in jail, the brawlers wind up in jail or the military, in which case they either die, self-destruct later on, or become disciplined, obedient units in the system.

The smarter males figure out how to display dominance, power, and assertiveness within the system in a meaningful way, with full self-awareness. These are the guys who maneuver into elite universities so they can maneuver into wealth and power, not merely to "get an education" or "get a job." Or they just go directly for the money so they can buy power. It isn't necessary for them to act like thugs, because pursuing wealth and power IS being a thug, albeit subtly and indirectly.

So, to OP, it's not the "evil" that's attracting them, it's the dominance, assertiveness, and strength that attracts them. Also, if they are attracted to the dark side of it, that's not a good sign. You are selecting the worst of them.

It would be better for you to take a step back and figure out how you can project the more positive side of dominance, strength, assertiveness, etc. so you can attract more light-side-of-the-force type females.

reversec · 2019-03-06T23:09:15+00:00

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2019-03-07T08:37:21+00:00

More lies. What is it with the recent influx of fantasy posts?

whatdidshewrite · 2019-03-06T23:50:56+00:00

The whole post is stupid.

If you know anything about sociopaths you'd know that they're not overtly evil. They want people to think they're good. They use soft power techniques like manipulation and gaslighting. They don't just go around kicking people off bikes wtf

wiffofass · 2019-03-07T08:53:31+00:00

I used to be a bully, light a lot of shit on fire, destroy school property, fuck around with teachers, even made one cry, constant fights and just being a fucking cunt all around. Girls loved me. When I was on the verge of getting kicked out of school I really had to change and study hard. I actually had a girl tell me "wtf happened to you? you used to be so cool". Girls are weird man. I kind of believe op. My best friend was a complete psychopath. He believed he had a deal with satan that good shit would happened to him if he did enough bad shit. He would just do bad things that would give him no benefit at all. For example he would destroy a bunch of documents or throw someones car keys in trash. I kind of looked up to him because he was great with women. I started to emulate his behavior to a degree.

Even now as a grownup one milf told me it turns her on I have a criminal past.

This also explains why I have women running after me when I cycle the steroid trenbolone. It makes you not care about anyone but yourself. It literally turns you into a sociopath. I don't even feel anything for my family on it... Don't feel like needing anyone or any empathy at all. Just complete dgaf mode.

Feels like I could walk through walls. You stare down everyone. Most guys just look down and submit. Hold the door open for you or move out of way when you walk. I actually feel disrespected if they don't. I expect it. I always walk in the middle of the road and take up the most space. Being completely jacked and muscular helps. I know it sounds bad.

SoulRebel99 · 2019-03-06T23:03:30+00:00

To be fair, when I had entered puberty I was an ugly bloke who overcompensated with my ego around women, still do, and boy did it work. Its all about calibration, being an asshole is helpful but you have to learn how to calibrate and how the behavior may impact others.

chazthundergut · 2019-03-07T15:47:26+00:00

Gross.

Become a sociopath to get pussy? No thanks

WOLFY-T · 2019-03-07T17:00:36+00:00

Lol this guy doesn't want to share the sociopath he modeled after but I definitely know for sure it's gotta be "stiffler" from American pie lmao. That's definitely the best sociopath that appeals to females for sure.

RightHandWolf · 2019-03-07T04:10:36+00:00

I think someone put something in the TRP water today.

bouncypoo · 2019-03-07T05:05:06+00:00

Theres a lot more truth in what your saying then alot of these betas will willingly accept. This is a community that endorses you can "learn" alot from women. WTF. Anything worthwhile that a women illustrates was taught to her by a man. Naturally women are attracted to dominance, you demonstrated that, though in a rather crude fashion. In higher social circles the same things are done except much more subtly.

jonpe87 · 2019-03-07T16:11:52+00:00

This totally works, it's like you get a HB10 and put naked in front of any man, instantly arousal. you can't argue or rationalize with instincts, woman want to fuck a psycho and man want to fuck hot body.. you don't think: "but is that chick cool?" Then they invent the narrative of "the heroin of the lost boy" to have a excuse for what is, in a rational point of view, unbelievable.

But it's really hard to put on this behaviour, because you really should not care, it must be like a second nature, people will try this and will be dependent of the outcome.

2019-03-06T23:32:41+00:00

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_A_L_3_X_ · 2019-03-07T16:38:49+00:00

What is the advice you would have wanted when you were starting to become a sociopath?

2019-03-07T20:46:37+00:00

In the long run, you would suck as a leader. Treat your subjects well untill they disrespect you, be a good king also. And you exagerate with the evil part, they liked cuz they though you were joking or saw you as funny or just strong or whatever hamesters. Yeah, they will hamster your shit parts of personality, but not forever

Title	How I used the Dark Triad traits to become a player as an ugly balding guy before discovering TRP.
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Date	March 6, 2019 10:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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