What college girls need to look out for; Causal Dating

Davina33 · 2021-04-13T17:16:24+00:00

This sadly goes beyond college. I know 40 year old men who act this way.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2021-04-13T19:14:23+00:00

Years ago when I was in university, I was shopping for lingerie and heard a uni girl saying “oh my fuck buddy is gonna love this”. This was pre-FDS but my ears still bled from hearing that. I wanted to walk up to her and tell her to not buy $50+ lingerie for a random fuck buddy.

Casual dating culture in college is REAL. I’ve also seen a couple be boyfriend/girlfriend but each cheat for some reason. It’s ridiculous

eveloe · 2021-04-13T17:52:56+00:00

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2021-04-13T20:42:31+00:00

also, to all the freshmen, please be careful starting the year. at my university they're literally hunting y'all down to get you to fuck them. don't trust college guys you meet at any party or in any bar.

monch-bred · 2021-04-14T00:32:50+00:00

Good post! Commenting to add: frequently while I was in college, me and my other friends were asked to be “exclusive but not official.” !!! Even back then, I told my friends it is not a real thing. It’s only a way to make sure you won’t have sex with anyone but them, without them putting in any care or commitment because “we’re not in a relationship we’re just exclusive.” Also, shockingly (to me) these guys 100% tell on themselves and say exactly those words, so you don’t need to do any reading between the lines.

🚨 If any guy ever tells you he wants to be “exclusive but not official” run and don’t look back!

Hostileovaries · 2021-04-14T05:50:26+00:00

Also do not assume exclusivity just because he love bombs you. Or that he's gotten an STD test just because he says he's 'clean', ask for proof and still use condoms and/or birth control.

2021-04-14T13:54:19+00:00

Grown ass men in their thirties also try this. It’s not just college.

eveloe · 2021-04-15T04:00:30+00:00

This is not even what courting means. It means dating for the purposes of marriage. I hate when the meanings of words are perverted to take advantage of women.

I think women should change the word relationship to mean one where there is emotional, physical and financial support for the woman, with no slacking on the man’s side, otherwise she is declared “single”

Title	What college girls need to look out for; Causal Dating
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Date	April 13, 2021 6:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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