Update: What actually happened at the end: I changed my mind, it was my friends bday and I was getting anxious over fucking this girl (over investing mentally), told her we could go drink to my friends place and that I'd be at X place to take a Taxi if she wanted to join. She said "ok see you later", I didnt even message her again when I was taking the Taxi, she wasn't there.

Ended up having fun with my friend and making out with a pretty hot Brazilian girl.

Now I see how stupid it was for me to get so nervous/anxious, need to be more self-aware.


The girl (already fucked) looked like so exhausted today and shit, I was 99% sure she'd say she couldn't meet if I asked it today. Regardless, I waited at the end of the class but she took so long to come off (I think she avoided me and was also talking with one BP orbiter).

So tomorrow that we have to meet I have a few options:

  • Text her asking when we meet? Risking that she will mostly say I'm sick/tired but at least I will have done everything in my power to fuck her. If she did so, I'd face rejection(which is good), but then I'd go 100% cold on her from now. Not salty but I would legit not go to drink with her or out anymore or anything.

  • Tell her directly that it's better if we meet another day or something (Idk if use the excuse that I have better plans or neg her that she was not really receptive last night when we made out), but then I shot myself in the foot but I take the power off her to reject me or make her a favor by doing so, not sure.

  • Don't message her, wait if she has any interest.

Pretty confused and don't know how to act, feeling pretty anxious. Yes I know scarcity but while working on a possible abundance this is what I have to deal with.