"if you can get her to strip naked in front of you, then you have her in the palm of your hand. if she can get you to open up about yourself and your feelings, she has you"

its a little rare, but every so often i see this claim, or one similar to it, used by some Redpillers. Basically the idea is that if you can get a women to want you sexually, then you can do pretty much whatever you want with her. However, if a women manages to get you to open up your feelings to her, then she can, and will use those against you.

This claim is somewhat related to another Redpill idea that women like the chase and mystery of a man. You cant reveil much about yourself or what youre feeling to her, because if she figures you out, then she'll just get bored with you and start chasing another man. So you have to remain mysterious in order to keep her wondering about you, and keep her sexually attracted.

What do you think about these claims? can they be refuted? commonly, what are women actually like in relationships?