I'm a man of color, born, raised, and living in America. Brown skin, middle eastern ancestry.

Despite this, (and not having ever been Muslim in my life) I was hurt and humiliated by a white woman. This was the first time I ever had sex, and I was a 24-year-old virgin before it.

She made blatant assumptions about me that had no basis in reality for purely racist reasons. And associated me with things that are in no way, shape, or form what I actually am. My testicles, for example, are not "bombs" waiting to go off. My penis is not a magic flying carpet for you to ride on. This was about 5 years ago, I don't remember all of it, but I remember the feeling quite vividly.

At the end of our encounter (was the only time I've ever had sex, to this day), she said this was her way of "getting back" at "my people" because in my culture I "betrayed" them. (her words, not mine.)

For reference, she was a manager at Sams Club and claimed the middle eastern male customers were dicks to her. As if I had anything to do with that, as well as everything she said about me during our sexual interaction.

I was genuinely hurt. Feminists only talk about women of color who were fetishized by white men. What about the other way around? What have feminists ever done for men of color who were fetishized by white women? As if our being and bodies are reduced to caricatures, often devoid of rational, reason, intellect, sound sense of morals, or any value beyond a purely sexual purpose.

If any other man of color had a similar experience with a white woman, I would like them to post it here.