Tinder girl wants me to dominate her, any tips?

wtfmak · 2017-12-10T13:53:59+00:00

I’m using sons advice from SGM

"Hey Dad, get any matches on Tinder?"

"Yeah, just matched with this ho that wants to be dominated, what would you recommend?"

"Go SGM on that bitch, rough that thot up and show her who's her daddy."

TheRedPillMonkey · 2017-12-10T15:02:50+00:00

Ask her what her limits are. Then essentially treat her as your slave within those limits. A safe word doesn't hurt, but really she wants her hair pulled, ass slapped, and she wants you to treat her like a ragdoll.

She likes the size difference, so she wants you to physically manhandle her, toss her around, and treat her like a sex object. I've done this numerous times and it can be a lot of fun.

Edit for specific tips:

Make her wear the highest heels she owns and tell her shes not allowed to take them off. Use that language. The heels are a natural bondage and when youre dragging or pushing her around shell have trouble standing and could fall easier needing to hold on to you.
A trick to make her physically melt into you: make her stand in front of a mirror. Come up behind her so she can see, pushing your entire body into hers. Then take your hand and reach around from the back and grab her neck from the front. Grab it firmly but not hard, and as you hold it, flex and tighten your arm while pulling her into your body. The firm grip drives her wild as does the bulging muscles which she can feel.
Pull her hair and slap her ass a lot.
Just fuck her like a living sex doll. You don't ask to switch positions or if she likes it. You tell her the positions and physically move her to those positions.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-12-10T17:46:58+00:00

Hmm. If only someone had written the definitive TRP guides to Submissive Girls and Tying Girls Up....oh, wait.

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.

ETA: Although I covered this in the Guide, it bears repeating: you are responsible for your sub when she's tied and helpless. Be sure to check her extremities to make sure you are not cutting off circulation, and also, sometimes a sub will not be able to speak her ease words or safe words, so be careful. This stuff is also primarily psychological, so ramp it up slowly the first time, lots of caresses that demonstrate how helpless she is, and some conversation about what her friends or co-workers would think if they could see her bound. A lot of the porn stuff you see on BDSM is about humiliation and degradation, which isn't what it's about. This highlights the need for conversation beforehand about what each party wants from a scene. That can be a simple as "What do you like?" or "What do you want to feel?" Both of my OLTRs enjoy being tied up and feeling "owned" by me for various reasons, not the least of which is that it allows them to be very sexual without being "sluts" because I'm in control of them, etc. So in some cases, BDSM is just a fun form of ASD.

atticusfinch1973 · 2017-12-10T12:23:11+00:00

Basically manhandle her. You need to treat her like your personal slave who can be used as you want. Light choking, slapping (especially spanking), things like calling her a slut and putting her into whatever position you want to fuck her in are standard.

My only caution especially if you're young is make sure to get some evidence that she is into it (video or text evidence). If things go too far and she suddenly feels like a slut then it's easy for her to suddenly call rape. The first couple of times also avoid anything that might leave a bruise.

bbm72 · 2017-12-10T12:07:07+00:00

What is SGM? Curious.

NiceTryDisaster · 2017-12-10T16:49:34+00:00

Have you even met her in person first?

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-12-10T16:55:32+00:00

SGM is the foundation upon which you build amazing sexual experiences.

On top of that you can add alot of things.

Fuck her where you're not supposed to. Coitus is always a bit more fun when you are breaking at least one law/rule.

Go to a Dick's/sporting goods store and pick up a 50ft cut of soft nylon climbing rope. Google a Shibari video and pick something very basic, then tie up yo girl. I will even pull out my phone and watch a tutorial with the girl standing right there and just tell her I want to practice some new ties.

Bitches love getting tied up. They are usually sopping wet by the time I'm done tying. Works great for me because I can only man handle the really little ones, but all girls are easy to handle when tied down ;)

Whips and floggers get fun. Hitachi magic wand comes out when I feel like saying "oh you're gonna cum whether you want to or not".

Remote vibrators at parties or in public.

The list fucking goes on. Use your imagination. Dominance isn't just physical. Creating variety, spontaneity and getting them to do something that feels new and exciting are all forms of dominance.

One of my recent plates had never had sex on her couch in her own apartment. "Really? Right here in front of the windows?" she said grinning. This is why youth and innocence is so attractive to men.. they are easier to stimulate than some used up alpha-widow tramp that has been passed around in all the worst ways.

Foolish_ness · 2017-12-10T18:43:56+00:00

Snack her in the head and down another carling!

DadOnDabs · 2017-12-10T19:56:05+00:00

1) read sex god method

2) essentially just do whatever the fuck you want to her and come up with a safe word. She playfully protests to something you do but doesn't say the safe word? Slap her in the face and keep doing it. (Establishing the safe word is key here)

zboo1h · 2017-12-10T19:58:14+00:00

I like to contrast my voice with my actions. My actions are rough: I push and pull her exactly where I want her. If I want her on her stomach with her ass in the air I flip her over and yank her ass up in the air, usually telling her to "get that ass up" in a sweet tone of voice. I'll feed her my cock and tell her she's good as she chokes and gags on it, giving her a few seconds to breathe occasionally.

Hold her head down, really smash her torso into the bed when fucking her from behind. Pull her arms behind her back. Lick your thumb and rub that bootyhole, then slide it on in, pull her head back towards you and whisper in her ear that you can feel your cock in her pussy through her ass.

Tell her to get on top and when she's going to cum, forcefully stop her and tell her she can't cum yet. Do this a few times.

Pick her up and fuck her. Push her up against a wall.

MattyAnon · 2017-12-10T21:33:57+00:00

Take it slow. TALK a lot about stuff (I'm going to pin you down and do X, Y and Z to you). Do much much less. This stuff needs time and trust. You don't want her going to the police covered in bruises while you try and explain "she was asking for it".

[deleted] · 2017-12-11T00:30:53+00:00

Record the entire thing. The audio so that she doesn't convict you of rape.

loddfavne · 2017-12-10T15:53:02+00:00

I read somewhere thay some women wants rough sex so it will be easier to claim rape later on. I woyld sjip that girl and go for the next instead.

Title	Tinder girl wants me to dominate her, any tips?
Author	wtfmak
Upvotes	22
Comments	33
Date	December 10, 2017 12:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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