I’ve been separated for about a year now and divorced for about 6 months. My wife wrote me about 2 months after our divorce that she was introducing my kids to her boyfriend. I responded by stating my disapproval. I know there’s nothing I can do about it but I felt I had to say something. Lately I’ve noticed he’s around her place more and I’m concerned how little I know about this person. I asked her to tell me more about him and she refused. I’m certainly not fully recovered from the divorce and everything I went through last year so I’m trying to get perspective on the problem. Am I in the wrong asking? Is it normal to want to know more? How have others introduced their significant others? It feels like she’s being really secretive. I’ve got two little girls that spend about 60% of there time with her. I want to know this guy is somewhat normal. What have others done in this situation? Thanks