Another Case of “Women have no consequences”. This sub will literally never learn.

Itsjustjessienowbro · 2019-05-24T22:50:06+00:00

I look at it this way . If a women is raped and gets pregnant it's considered completely valid to kill it via abortion so she doesn't have to be reminded of that horrible incident.

But walking away from a kid that isn't yours because it will constantly remind you that the person closest to you (At the time ) lied to you and used you basically o uut of convience makes you a monster.

It's just like being forced to be a father , the women makes all the choices and the man is obligated by the woman's choices.

Fuck that

LateralThinker13 · 2019-05-24T22:35:48+00:00

NTA. Marriage and paternity fraud. Extricate and protect yourself.

tenchineuro · 2019-05-24T20:52:42+00:00

Another Case of “Women have no consequences”. This sub will literally never learn.

What will this sub never learn, other than origami?

jacksleepshere · 2019-05-24T23:53:58+00:00

Fucking retards on that sub, once I was asked by a kid on the bus if I could be his Dad. Am I all of a sudden responsible to take care of him?

What most people over there don't seem to realise is that most people only love their own children, because they are their own children.

bagforthebadger · 2019-05-25T00:43:54+00:00

The thing that troubles me is that this could set off a chain of events where the child normalizes abandoning the child. Even though there’s extenuating circumstances, it’s a kinda shit example to set.

While the dad should ABSOLUTELY leave the wife, I think the middle ground is to absolve himself of financial duties to the kid but stay involved. It doesn’t take money to take walks in the park, support them at little league games, or even send a birthday card. That kind of impact sets one hell of an example for this child to be a respectable man who still upholds his principles.

jbe1114 · 2019-05-25T11:24:12+00:00

To be totally fair, the comments I've seen near the top are calling the woman an asshole and everyone seems to agree this guy is in the right for leaving her. Where they seem to be conflicted is how they feel about leaving the child. Half say he should stick around for him and can't believe he can leave the child so easily. Half believe he should put his own personal interests first, even if it means he feels he should separate himself.

I guess when it comes to the child, I agree with this guy doing whatever he felt he wanted to do, whether it be sticking around due to the bond formed or leaving to protect himself. I'm happy the comments of this post seem to all point towards support for leaving his wife and knowing that she was definitely in the wrong.

levelate · 2019-05-25T00:23:52+00:00

Ok his wife sucks, and he has every right to leave her and I hope he doesn’t have to pay alimony. But to the kid, he is the father despite it not being biologically his. It would be the same as marrying a woman who had an infant from a pre-existing relationship, raising it for 5 years, then divorcing and saying “ah well it ain’t mine fuck this kid.”

This is a terrible example of the message you are trying to convey

Another Case of “Women have no consequences”. This sub will literally never learn.

Crosspost "AITA for leaving my cheating wife and her child for good?" from /r/AmItheAsshole:

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Title	Another Case of “Women have no consequences”. This sub will literally never learn.
Author	PhotonParable
Upvotes	60
Comments	39
Date	May 24, 2019 8:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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