People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grass

fatsackguy47 · 2023-03-26T06:41:14+00:00

Younger people are honestly quite blackpilled generally speaking. Maybe they don’t know all the advanced vantapill theories and shit but many zoomers, even some zoomer women but mostly men, understand looks are king in dating.

In my experience there are two major groups of bluepilled people: older generations (like millennials and beyond) and women. there is some overlap but whatever. Also some women/older folks are based but most bluepillers fall under these groups.

Older generations are bluepilled because they simply lived in different times. The advice they give sounds stupid as fuck but it actually worked for them which is why many of them vehemently insist that they are right. The problem is dating is different now and their advice is outdated.

Tl;dr bluepill worked for them but it doesn’t work anymore.

Now for women. As many of us know, women tend to be bluepilled because they have INSANE inherent SMV because they are women AND because the vast majority of men are invisible to them until they are ready to settle. Basically insane SMV = easy dates = just world fallacy (if dating is easy for me it must be easy for everyone). Also, non-chad men are invisible to them = chad is their only frame of reference = apex fallacy forms (this means they believe every man must date like Chad does). Basically since they see chad and other women getting tons of dates/sex they assume it’s like that for everyone. Both of these fallacies are why they have such a hard time believing average mens struggles in dating hence the gaslighting bluepill nonsense you see towards the men who are otherwise invisible to them in dating.

tl;dr women don’t know/don’t believe what non-chad men go through because chad is their main frame of reference and the just world fallacy clouds their understanding of dating.

BladeRunner1998 · 2023-03-26T03:27:40+00:00

I was just thinking this this morning. I remember how enraged I was when I was in college because of the blackpill being shoved in my face every day and seeing women I tried to get but couldn't. I would have quit college early if lockdown hadn't happened

SedTheeMighty · 2023-03-26T11:59:22+00:00

Lol yea it isn’t worth explaining anymore. People won’t truly know unless they experience it

Whnitallfallsdown · 2023-03-26T03:27:44+00:00

Life is for women and Chads only

500mgofShower · 2023-03-26T03:55:48+00:00

Going to the bars and clubs and getting SMV mogged by a white basic ass carbon copy frat boy back to the war torn cities of Jaurez Mexico was enough of a blackpilling moment dawg

l00ks-p1lled · 2023-03-26T20:48:47+00:00

Nothing will make you more Blackpilled than growing up with a bad malocclusion and having close attractive friends. Trust me ;D

Nihi1986 · 2023-03-27T03:26:53+00:00

To an extent they are right, but they lie if the deny that the chances are quite low for 'incels' whatever they do (realistically).

Still, socializing is the only way for non Chads and drastically increases your chances if you are a genuinely good person who wants more than just sex (or if you have really good game/lots of money, that works too).

Anyway, the 'blackpills' aren't entirely wrong but they are a bit exagerated. It's up to you holding on that slight chance and hopes or giving up.

PubertyDeformedFace · 2023-03-28T01:16:45+00:00

I was "blackpilled" but still a little red or bluepilled for a little bit, because my exposure towards it was online and despite having undergone some brutal blackpill experiences in college,

I told myself it wasn't that bad to have an ugly male face outside of sex and dating. Just working 6 weeks at a shitty car rental company ( Avis Budget Group) and getting fired due to my looks along with being treated as absolute garbage by women in my age group working there, while watching women, normies and even old guys orbiting a high-tier normie who was shorter than me, made me realize it was all about face.

I encountered more brutal discriminatory treatment at a Amazon delivery service partner and quit after the first day after the training and getting injured. The most brutal aspect of it was being disrespected by a tall balding huge framed baby faced transgender woman who sounded like a gay man, while watching her being treated with respect despite clearly looking and sounding like a man.

DiscardedShard · 2023-03-26T14:42:26+00:00

I'm 34/M and when I discovered the redpill I was sort of laughing because I was like shit imagine being 30 years old and learning this shit now.

I figured this shit out when I was about 14 and developed a sex drive. The game was transparent from the very start and it was clear that you had to have something unique to offer women to get their attention.

The world is ass backward.

facingitall · 2023-03-26T08:35:59+00:00

The real question is, why do you care what random people say online?

Whether something is true or not doesn't change just because others do or don't agree with it. Even the responses here are just coming from other people with their own bias.

If your research and experience has lead you to that conclusion, then maybe you're onto something. Then, you just keep living life and thinking critically, and from there, whatever nuanced conclusion you come up with is your best shot at getting closest to the truth.

Lyzard96 · 2023-03-26T17:06:50+00:00

You're going out and meeting people but you're not removing your confirmation bias from your thinking. When you come into a situation with a preconceived notion that "the black pill" is true, every interaction you have just seems to add to it. Your judgement is clouded and you're ignoring any evidence to the contrary. Stop being biased.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-03-26T06:54:33+00:00

There is a lot of truth to black pill but it just exaggerates things. Lots of people in this community have autism or don't get out much so they don't understand all the nuance in social interactions. Like if you go shopping you will see couples of all sorts of attractiveness.

SedTheeMighty · 2023-03-26T04:16:35+00:00

I don’t agree that all you need to do is get out of the house and socialise and things will happen, That’s the bare minimum.

Of course, if you never leave the house, then the advice youll get will be to start leaving the house.

But then incels be like “I got a hobby like you told me to, why aren’t women falling into my lap?”.

It’s becuase getting out the house and doing things is the first step, there’s a lot more to it than that, it’s going to take time to adjust to being social if you have been hiding in your room for years. Then flirting and dating skills are a whole new subset of skills to learn after you’ve got better at being social.

atmhere11 · 2023-03-26T10:40:11+00:00

If you do any of this “pill” talk irl, I have to assume that you are insufferable, unattractive, broke, or all three

SheepyTLDR · 2023-04-16T18:34:48+00:00

Believe what your eyes see. Look at how women act. That is all the truth you need

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Title	People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grass
Author	Selionnds
Upvotes	48
Comments	104
Date	March 26, 2023 3:15 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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